saw that one good video

yes

yes. I will usually go with the "that was (fire emoji)" or "did you make it back ok?" if drinks were involved.

do you go for the insta every time? It is honestly hard to tell sometimes straight from the dating apps and I don't want to create unnecessary friction by randomly asking for it or asking every time.

probably need to confront her and say something like "hey if you're not into this I can just move on" or "this will be my last attempt to try and meet you in person" otherwise she will just keep flaking because she knows you're too available.

makes sense. thanks

I figured some girls might be more down if they didn't have to put in the effort to drive so i've been asking your place or mine and most of the time it is mine. Is this a bad strategy to use? what is the philosophy behind always going for your place regardless?

not necessarily iv gotten a few hookups and dates using it. It is just more annoying to use.

It was to make the shirtless picture a bit more comical/not as serious to not look like I was trying too hard and for it to be a bit unique. I get a lot of messages about it works well, feel free to use the idea yourself or a variation of it.

either "dont get too excited now" or comment about their pics or bio in a mildly sexual way.