A lot of people donât realize this, but when you join our program, you also get access to a private Mastermind I run alongside the course. Itâs an ongoing, members-only environment where youâre not guessing or going it alone. Inside the mastermind, you get: Direct help from me every single day (texts, profiles, dates, real situations) Weekly live Group Zoom calls with me A high-level community where experienced guys actively help newer members (people end up networking, becoming wingmen, and even real friends) Most guys come in for the information. They stay because they finally have feedback, accountability, and momentum. (The mastermind is available to PWF course members, and your first month is free) Important update: On February 12th, the mastermind price is going up from $49/month â $69/month for new members. If you join before then, youâre grandfathered in at $49/month for life (as long as you stay a member). The reason for the increase is simple: the mastermind has grown quickly, and because Iâm personally involved every day, I need to cap bandwidth and keep the quality high. If youâve been planning to join âeventually,â this is one of those moments where waiting actually costs you. đ Details / enrollment link below www.playingfire.com/sale
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Since joining PWF a couple of weeks ago, I understand (online) game a lot better. A lot of valuable content on here! But I notice a small gap in practical application. The lay reports show a lot of good info, but it seems most of the time there is already pretty good response/investment from the start. In combination with the skills of the PWF men, it can feel like a big gap. Where we start as rookies and where they are already. I think it would be very beneficial if the guys on here would share some stories about how they turned around their game. Some before and after text game screenshots, the mental aspect of it etc. Now we just need YOU to break the ice and post YOUR succes story in this thread!
Hey Alex, guys, Need a quick breakdown of my situation. The Date: Things went great. We escalated to make-outs very quickly and she was super receptive. When I went for the pull/sex, she gave me some resistance (classic ASD). She explicitly said she didn't want it to be a one-night stand with me. She also confessed her pattern: in the past, if she slept with a guy on the first date, she would dump him first just to avoid getting dumped. Eventually, the sexual tension was too high and we had sex (gave her 3 orgasms). The Texts: I sent her a quick text right after she left at night. The next day around 1 PM, I texted her to set up a second date. We texted a bit, but at some point, she just stopped replying. (WhatsApp screenshot attached below) My thoughts: I'm wondering if I over-sexualized my texts the day after the date. Since she mentioned wanting something more serious, I might have triggered her buyer's remorse and she pegged me as a fuckboy. My Gameplan: During the date, she mentioned that her absolute dream date is a guy taking her to the theater (complaining that guys don't do that anymore). I want to send her a low-pressure ping after 7 days of no contact to reset the vibe and show that I actually listened to her. I'm thinking of sending this: "Hey, I was walking by the theater today and remembered our conversation. Hope your week is going well." What do you think? Did I over-sexualize the texts, and is this ping a good way to handle her ASD?
Quick number close from a rather brief cold approach interaction. After the opening line, she couldnât completely recall the extent of the conversation possibly because the interaction was rather short as well as how she was in a hurry. Whatâs the best response to this without being needy while maintaining value? Would you say itâs best to avoid something overly logical?
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At my job I do security in a patrol vehicle in a Plaza at a grocery store and at a Ross there is quite a few of chicks that come in to the stores but not many are attractive but  sometimes I do see an attractive girl but she's always with a friend parents or a baby for kids what's the best way I can approach because I only have like a few seconds once they leave the store or before they go into the store I can't really  like go in there in the location because it'll make it obvious that I'm in there to get at chicks I can at the grocery store they're a little bit more lenient and they don't mind me going in  once in awhile if I do send attractive girl I have done that but I don't want to make it a habit the best time to really approach any girl is literally with the security car so I kind of pull up  when they're about to leave or before they're about to go in the store and I say hey I wanted to meet you my name is Isaac this and that and I try to build rapport as much as I can  joke around I used to say oh I'm actually looking for this girl she stole some stuff and and I would describe the same outfit of clothes that they were wearing and they would just like  laugh like oh my God and I would build a little bit of answer that way and I would actually get quite a few numbers from that my meet up rate from just security patrols and getting  numbers is about 15% so out of 60 numbers that I got I met up with like 9 girls and I closed 6 what is the best way for me to approach in this situation and what should I say
Saw a girl sitting by herself at Starbucks, decided to strike up a conversation which led to her giving me her number. How do I move this interaction forward (without getting into the details of the cold approach if it doesnât help)? Is more investment needed from her before going for the soft close/meet up? If so, whatâs a good text to move this text exchange forward while getting her more invested?
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In Jan 2026 she responded to an old story response I had sent in July 2025, then I tried continuing the convo on IG. Decided to just text her even though the last texts were wack, since she has 200k followers and figured she just missed it.  Thinking of following up on Thursday night with "sounds good? if not when are you free".  She takes a while to respond though, so I'm not sure if she's just waiting or something. I also know that she's been hanging out with some other dude since my friend saw them making out last weekend, if that makes a difference. Pretty sure that just means I should have texted her sooner in Jan like I was thinking. Lmk if my plan sounds good or what you'd send instead.
As you probably know, there are a lot of AI rizz apps designed to help you text girls (such as Rizz app, WingAI, Plug AI). However, as you will learn, they are far from the same. I am going to go deep and analyze your options, so you donât have to. One interesting thing, you will discover is that there is not always a correlation between the apps quality and popularity. 1) Rizz App This is by far the most popular AI rizz assistant on the market. No other app even comes close in terms of installs. However, the quality definitely doesnât live up to the hype. It generally gave pretty cheesy pickup lines, like something you would hear in a movie from the 90s. 2) PlugAI This might be the second most popular rizz assistant and overall, it was definitely better than the Rizz App. You do have to subscribe to a plan before using, but they give you a 3 day free trial, so you can just cancel after that. The app itself is very simple, one additional feature the app has is the ability to generate pickup lines. Personally, I donât think theyâre very effective, but itâs a nice touch. In terms of effectiveness, there was actually some decent suggestions here. Definitely none of corniness of Rizz app. However, it felt like half the time the AI wasnât completely grasping the situation or the responses just seemed off. 3) FireTexts Full disclosure, I developed this app. Nevertheless, I (along with thousands of our users) believe it is currently the best rizz app on the market. Allow me to explain. This app was trained on thousands of real-world conversations (with impeccable rizz). As a result, it is highly effective. Like Rizz App, we allow you to try it for free. However, unlike the Rizz App, the actual responses are funny and witty. No corny lines here. Most importantly, we taught this app the optimal texting strategy, so it knows what itâs doing to get you the date (even if you donât). You can install & try FireTexts for free and take all the guesswork out of texting girls, by having the perfect text every time https://firetexts.onelink.me/Pdob/twcwelms
Does anyone here use the tinder prompts? Are they that important or should I just focus on my pics and bio
Met this girl by the dj stand at a party. we were talking for maybe 10-15 min, dancing for another 15 min. She gave me her number and told me to text her. It has been a day and a half. She told me at the party she is free thursday night. should I double text it? when? what do i say? help @avilench
Just got into Raya few days ago. Can I still use the classic PWF bio on there? Specifically: "6'0 | \[city] My passion is traveling the world and whispering \[language] in your ear. Strengths: dominant, grilling steak, expert cuddler Weaknesses: nice smiles, intelligence"
