A lot of people donât realize this, but when you join our program, you also get access to a private Mastermind I run alongside the course. Itâs an ongoing, members-only environment where youâre not guessing or going it alone. Inside the mastermind, you get: Direct help from me every single day (texts, profiles, dates, real situations) Weekly live Group Zoom calls with me A high-level community where experienced guys actively help newer members (people end up networking, becoming wingmen, and even real friends) Most guys come in for the information. They stay because they finally have feedback, accountability, and momentum. (The mastermind is available to PWF course members, and your first month is free) Important update: On February 12th, the mastermind price is going up from $49/month â $69/month for new members. If you join before then, youâre grandfathered in at $49/month for life (as long as you stay a member). The reason for the increase is simple: the mastermind has grown quickly, and because Iâm personally involved every day, I need to cap bandwidth and keep the quality high. If youâve been planning to join âeventually,â this is one of those moments where waiting actually costs you. đ Details / enrollment link below www.playingfire.com/sale
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Since joining PWF a couple of weeks ago, I understand (online) game a lot better. A lot of valuable content on here! But I notice a small gap in practical application. The lay reports show a lot of good info, but it seems most of the time there is already pretty good response/investment from the start. In combination with the skills of the PWF men, it can feel like a big gap. Where we start as rookies and where they are already. I think it would be very beneficial if the guys on here would share some stories about how they turned around their game. Some before and after text game screenshots, the mental aspect of it etc. Now we just need YOU to break the ice and post YOUR succes story in this thread!
"are you always this bratty"? or "you dont wanna be my type?"
Went on a house date with this girl but she was super shy and didn't wanna even kiss at my place even though she seemed dtf over text and over call. We just walked around held hands and smoked weed. Thought it was done but she randomly hit me up a few days ago and so i asked her out again.  I'm thinking of saying "I could just pay for your ubers", but I don't even know if she'd bang me if she came over tbh. Seems like a waste of time
So long story short I had a plan to meet up with the girl that I met during day game she's a real stage and makes a lot of money and all this stuff and I told her let's grab drinks we'll  grab a margarita she agreed to it that was probably about a week ago maybe 6 7 days ago and now right before we're about to go meet up she's like I'm not in the mood to go  drinking and I told her how about you have a Shirley Temple which is just like a soda type of drink and then she's like asking oh do they serve food this and that and I kind of told her like yeah they serve food but I'm not switching up plans  now when you could have told me a long time ago about that this is literally like an hour before we're supposed to meet up just trying to switch phones and I stuck to my guns and told her like look this is what I want to do I think they have food  there but we're going to go get drinks so don't be acting brand new LOL and that was kind of like the gist of my text so did I do good job what should I do better in the situation when girls trying to switch out cuz this happened already like a couple times in the past week already with two different girls
Hi guys! Alex told me to post this here from a YouTube comment so he could see. Iâm not getting any matches on dating apps right now and I feel it must be because my photos arenât as good as I thought they were. I know itâs best to have activity photos, but I thought Iâd have some amount of success, even without any. Iâve always been good at chatting and feel my text game is great, but I need to actually get matches to get to that part in the first place. These are the photos Iâm using at the moment. Iâm thinking I should also have one that clearly shows my full body so that women know Iâm not fat or anything. What are your thoughts on these ones though? Thanks for any help. 
Exchanged numbers with a girl after making tentative plans for a meet up. However, Iâm not sure whatâs the best response since she just liked my message. Since itâs only been a day, should I wait longer to see whether or not she replies? If not, what would be an ideal follow-up text?
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\- matched with 21 year old model influencer type (13k followers) \- made plans on the dating app, but she didnt receive my messages so we moved (hence the âbefore the universe sabotages us againâ line) \- made firmer plans for Monday, but she left my last message on seen yesterday (friday) when i proposed the venue which was in my area \- we didnât explicitly tell each other where we lived but her dating profile says she lives at the other end of town, so my guess is that this caused her nonresponsiveness. Maybe aside from regular cold feet. Or idk if for her plans are final and no need to reply back Gonna follow up tom (sunday) evening. Should i do a takeaway (e.g. âdo you not like the placeâ, âcold feet huhâ, âif thatâs cool, or skeleton meme), or just a simple confirmatory âstill on for tomorrow ?â
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Saw a girl sitting by herself at Starbucks, decided to strike up a conversation which led to her giving me her number. How do I move this interaction forward (without getting into the details of the cold approach if it doesnât help)? Is more investment needed from her before going for the soft close/meet up? If so, whatâs a good text to move this text exchange forward while getting her more invested?
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Made a cold approach after noticing a girl walking by. Was receptive throughout the interaction because she showed interest in my ethnicity and what I do. However, our text exchange stalled out due to unresponsiveness to small talk. Would you say itâs better to wait for longer before double texting or is sending a follow up text optimal since itâs been a couple days? If so, what would be a good follow up text?
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I was hooking up at my place with a really quite DTF girl from Hinge. I fingered her then went down on her, both until she came. Then she took my pants off and gave me a handjob over my briefs. Then I pinned her and playfully choked her. At that point, she unexpectedly excused herself to the bathroom. After that, she said this isn't gonna work out and gave me some bullshit excuse like "it's not my style", then "you don't seem to know what you're doing", then left. When I asked her what make her say that, she pulled another excuse "the kissing wasn't good, too much tongue". She is big into kissing but she also used her tongue a lot, so I don't buy that.  Do you think she was real about the kissing too much tongue? Or was it the choking? I also have to say I didn't get hard, even during her handjob. Could that be the reason why? Is it possible that she thought I'm only choking her in an attempt to get hard?
