A lot of people donât realize this, but when you join our program, you also get access to a private Mastermind I run alongside the course. Itâs an ongoing, members-only environment where youâre not guessing or going it alone. Inside the mastermind, you get: Direct help from me every single day (texts, profiles, dates, real situations) Weekly live Group Zoom calls with me A high-level community where experienced guys actively help newer members (people end up networking, becoming wingmen, and even real friends) Most guys come in for the information. They stay because they finally have feedback, accountability, and momentum. (The mastermind is available to PWF course members, and your first month is free) Important update: On February 12th, the mastermind price is going up from $49/month â $69/month for new members. If you join before then, youâre grandfathered in at $49/month for life (as long as you stay a member). The reason for the increase is simple: the mastermind has grown quickly, and because Iâm personally involved every day, I need to cap bandwidth and keep the quality high. If youâve been planning to join âeventually,â this is one of those moments where waiting actually costs you. đ Details / enrollment link below www.playingfire.com/sale
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Since joining PWF a couple of weeks ago, I understand (online) game a lot better. A lot of valuable content on here! But I notice a small gap in practical application. The lay reports show a lot of good info, but it seems most of the time there is already pretty good response/investment from the start. In combination with the skills of the PWF men, it can feel like a big gap. Where we start as rookies and where they are already. I think it would be very beneficial if the guys on here would share some stories about how they turned around their game. Some before and after text game screenshots, the mental aspect of it etc. Now we just need YOU to break the ice and post YOUR succes story in this thread!
I work delivery so i tried to approach at the supermarket. I had girls give me clear IOI's, circling around me, staring me, and yet i still pussied myself out of approaching. She gave me so much room to get approached that i literally felt bad for her, for not actlling like a man. She grabbed random products just to stay close to me so i could approach Also, i saw a very beautiful girl in leggings, probably a polish tourist, and didn't approach. I felt so bad it was like dying inside. I have moments of anger i start thinking why we came to this. Woman are privileged and showered with sex and love since the age of 15. Meanwhile here we are building entire sites, paying for apps, coaches, courses, AI pics and so on. We can do a huge body of work and can still end up with nothing. Woman don't do any work and still end up always paired with someone. I feel like an alien because my ideas are so different from normal people. Normal people think man have advantages and a lot of sex. I know this is not the case. In fact I'm pretty sure 90% never have a date their entire life. Yet popular culture portray "dating" as a normal activity that all people do, when it's not. All woman date but most man don't. I also feel that every time i approach a girl at the mall/street she will know that I've been looking for girls the entire day and that I'm fishing randomly until i catch one. Not that i care about their opinion but still bothers me. I tried to approach at city center milan where tourists take pictures, i felt weird standing next to the historical building to talk to girls. Again they will think I'm doing that the entire day Building a good instagram with ai is taking too long, it hard to get enough fallowers is i don't look like a weirdo. I'm thinking of just asking for numbers even if it means i will lose a lot of girls. Only super yes girls will give up something personal like the number i stead of ig Also I'm thinking of going all in. Like literally approach the entire day until i get a positive experience that can rewire my thinking and be used as a positive example. Just like tinder, i didn't believe it untill i started getting laid and not it looks too easy even What i could do now is literally stay in the supermarket or city center the entire day, force myself to approach until i get a close I think us man end up like that because we go so many years without intimacy. Last girl i fucked was last may, 12 months ago. Yet society accuse us of beign the privilege sex? I have hard time accepting this things, i find myself angry and debating myself during the day
Matched with a girl on hinge, went out on a date and made out a couple of times. Things were then pretty sexual over text and we decided to schedule our next "massage date" at a hotel room (Because our place is not an option, we both stay with parents. Common here in India) and she was like "I've got 2 non-negotiables, I won't go down on you and no sex". BTW, I screened her earlier about her dating intentions and she was like "I'm experimenting" So I replied with classic PWF line "Ok. Do you hate sex or something" and she was like "No, I'm just not ready for it" so I took a takeaway and understood that the underlying meaning might potentially be that she is down only if I act cool around and not there just for sex, so I sent her "I get it, it's completely normal to feel that way. I don't come with any expectations, if it happens naturally great, if it doesn't I won't get butt hurt". After that we had some other back and forth texts again bit sexualized convo where I was teasing her about our last makeout and all. Did I handle this properly? And does this really mean that escalating things the next time will be v difficult?
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Do likes just dry up after the first few days on tinder and you have to pay? 
Hi Alex and friends. I was hoping to get your thoughts on whether some of the photos I'm thinking of using for the apps are too edited or unrealistic compared to how I look IRL The first 3 photos are edited, the last 2 photos (selfie on the street and the bathroom pic) are completely raw candids I took Would girls think I look noticeably less attractive IRL on the date and feel disappointed if I use the first 3 pics? 
Hey Alex, currently these 4 photos are what I'm using now (in order). Please let me know what you think of them and how anything could be improved. The only pictures I believe I'm missing is a high SMV pic and an activity photo showcasing my work/hobbies.  I'll upload some more pictures in the comments which I think are good but haven't made the cut due to how my profile stands at the moment. Let me know if I should swap or add any of those pictures in my profile. Cheers,  Josh
cold approached a girl had a decent interaction and got her number, it was a street approach, later that night i sent a callback text referencing abt her fashion, its been a day with no response what should i do? leave it or text again tmrw? and what should i even text after this what kind of vibe or msg usually works best in these situations?
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A few times Iâd have her over after work, and sheâd hit me with the âIâm too tired to fuck todayâ. It doesnât happen a lot, and 9/10 we fuck hard, but itâs happened a couple times so far. The last time I just shut down and my mood changed which she sensed and then tried to make it up to me but Iâd been put off and she knew it. Eventually she kept initiating and we fucked. usually We fuck no problem when I see her, but it annoys me when she occasionally comes over and then does that. i try to relay to her that if your tired let me know ahead and then weâll make plans another day. She just sometimes wants an excuse to be around me. Another example is period, I refrain from seeing her when sheâs on the period due to mood changes etc.  how Should I handle her next time she comes and says sheâs tired to fuck? I understand sometimes you just canât avoid it, it happens especially with someone your seeing regularl. 
Title is self explanatory. Been in communication with a girl in a country I visited but only got her last minute when I was leaving, so didnât get to meet. Anyway, our communication was going well and I was trying to plan a meet up for months using long game, until she asked me to send her money for nails. I obviously declined, and now sheâs saying she donât date guys likeme lol. Sheâs about to block me, and tbh I couldnât care less, I dont come across this as often but itâs happened a few times whe. They try to ask for simp stuff like sending money and itâs a turn off. How do I handle these kind of girls? Or best to just block and move on?
Was looking to get some feedback on my tinder profile. I tried a variation of this profile that excluded some photos but only got a couple of likes. Haven't gotten a single match. I made this profile yesterday afternoon. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated. Thanks. https://tinder.com/@immulate
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How do I get past a rejection depression phase where you get rejected so many times and you question your abilities, stop talking to girls, put in less effort, wondering if you can even get a girl or something wrong with me. I go to the gym got a career going have a good style, people know me but I donât have many friends, I go out by myself most times. I donât go to nightclubs or bars, best way to meet women for me is in the gym or just going about my day. put dating apps aside for a bit have not gotten on one date in my whole life, only phone numbers.
