met this girl, she is 15 years older than me, she was visiting my city briefly we had strong mutual physical chemistry. but when i suggested getting a room, she said she wasnt comfortable with that, later she told me she gets attached easily and is afraid of people taking advantage of her vulnerability, today is likely the last day ill see her before she leaves, i want to have sex but i dont want to pressure her or make her feel used, how should i handle the final date? ( btw she extended her trip just so she could hangout with me)

Hi guys, Hoping for some advice here! Had a woman from Tinder over for a second date for "piano lessons" at my place and we ended up in bed. Afterwards she wanted to head back to her place to sleep but I asked her to stay the night. Staying for the night after sex is just what I'm used to previously mostly for practical reasons without much further meaning to it (other than possible morning sex...) no matter the location, how casual the relation or stage of dating - and I was concerned for her as it was late and bad weather. I realize that in doing so I probably came across as too clingy/needy or moving too fast and thus turning her off - as her response was she found it too early to be comfortable with. We had great chemistry otherwise and I want to see her again but with no specific expectations - prefer regular casual over one-time stuff. I did not get any hint that she was only looking for a one-night stand before this and we talked about continuing to see each other (e.g., salsa lessons in exchange for my piano lessons). I sent a basic (probably cringe) follow-up message and day later and got clear less interest from her response compared to previous interactions (i.e., short replies, no follow-up questions, limited excitement): Me: "Thanks for yet a fun evening, Piano Girl 🎹🔥 Did you survive the thunderous rain? Her: "Thank you for taking the time to learn the song for me 🫶 I survived... it was super heavy rain BTW 🌧" Is there any way to recover from this and how would you handle it? Address it in some playful manner to take the pressure off? Not adress it at all? Open up for a next meeting vaguely with no time frame? Or test her interest - and at least face rejection - directly by suggesting a time for the next meeting? Put it all on hold for a few days? Just realize this was a one-off thing and move on?  Or am I overthinking all of this? PS: Admittedly, I had some stress-related performance issues, but did get her off twice, we were open about kinks, etc. So part of me wants to "do better" on continued meetings as I know I have done before - but I know of course can't always count on this if not for a stellar first impression.