girl has a lot going on in their life, Best way to play it?

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J

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J

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A girl is telling me she has a lot of major stress going on in her life such as here dad at high risk is diagnosed with covid recently and she is having problems with her roommates and parents, and is sad about loosing her dream job... and that she doesn't want to do anything now. How best to play it so that the connection is maintained without coming off too much as a nice guy or just someone trying to get her to do something? Had two dates with them both got physical so I know there is at least some interest there.

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J

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Alex has some good vids on this. Watch his one on "persistence vs neediness"

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J

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saw that one good video

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Pancake Mouse Avatar

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Show empathy, quickly change subject

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avilench . Avatar

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Did you guys have sex?

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J

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yes

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avilench . Avatar

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Hmm. She probably is telling the truth in that case. Post screenshots of the convo and I'll be able to better help you here

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