What’s a good response to this open rejection?
17 Posts (+5), 44 Cmts (+7)
For the past 2 months I have been trying to set up a date with this girl.
She would be open to the soft close, but whenever I’d go for the hard close she’d never reply.
I would typically use responses like the “if you’re too nervous I’d understand” or “I didn’t take you for the shy type”.
She would normally end up up responding with “I’m sorry, I hadn’t seen the message” or just randomly ignore it and start off with a good morning.
Until finally she told me that ”it’s going to have to wait until a little bit later because I can’t during this time”.
This could mean many things so I’m not worried about what they are.
So what would be a good reply to what she said?
I’m thinking something along the lines of “No worries, I’ll see you when this is all over” or “No worries, I’ll keep the wine safe”, but I’m not sure if those are good ones.
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
it's hard for me to give you exact feedback without the screenshots. but i would try to figure out the why she cant meetup. Like "are you worried that i have the roan?" figure out the objection so you can address it or "tell me your concern" in terms of having to be persistent ive been there many times. Check out some of my lay reports that are similar. You can just search "persistence" using the search function in the forums.
4 Posts (+5), 38 Cmts (+2)
Sheesh 2 months. If a girl wants you she'll make time. Sorry bro that's a time waster best to move on. Maybe make a Hail Mary attempt like James B Is saying but call it after.
17 Posts (+5), 44 Cmts (+7)
Alex one time pursued a girl for 3 months so that's why this one might still have some hope. Either way, I'm not holding my breath, but I would like to at least leave this girl on pause with a good response.
4 Posts (+5), 38 Cmts (+2)
Let's reframe. Alex's online dating experience is unparalleled and you're saying he did it once with a top 1% profile. You're right it could happen but the odds are very very low.
37 Posts (+24), 57 Cmts (+9)
probably need to confront her and say something like "hey if you're not into this I can just move on" or "this will be my last attempt to try and meet you in person" otherwise she will just keep flaking because she knows you're too available.
17 Posts (+5), 44 Cmts (+7)
I haven’t been making myself too available though. Such as waiting 2-3 days to respond, or even trying to set up the date in a week to 2 weeks because I’ve been busy with other girls.