For the past 2 months I have been trying to set up a date with this girl. She would be open to the soft close, but whenever I’d go for the hard close she’d never reply. I would typically use responses like the “if you’re too nervous I’d understand” or “I didn’t take you for the shy type”. She would normally end up up responding with “I’m sorry, I hadn’t seen the message” or just randomly ignore it and start off with a good morning. Until finally she told me that ”it’s going to have to wait until a little bit later because I can’t during this time”. This could mean many things so I’m not worried about what they are. So what would be a good reply to what she said? I’m thinking something along the lines of “No worries, I’ll see you when this is all over” or “No worries, I’ll keep the wine safe”, but I’m not sure if those are good ones.

37 Posts (+24), 57 Cmts (+9)
probably need to confront her and say something like "hey if you're not into this I can just move on" or "this will be my last attempt to try and meet you in person" otherwise she will just keep flaking because she knows you're too available.
17 Posts (+5), 44 Cmts (+7)
I haven’t been making myself too available though. Such as waiting 2-3 days to respond, or even trying to set up the date in a week to 2 weeks because I’ve been busy with other girls.