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honestly, that should almost never be happening. The chick should be driving to your place. Can you give more context or screenshots on what lead up to this comment in the first place.
I figured some girls might be more down if they didn't have to put in the effort to drive so i've been asking your place or mine and most of the time it is mine. Is this a bad strategy to use? what is the philosophy behind always going for your place regardless?
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Logistics is KEY to getting laid. Always plan the meet up close to your place. Pick a bar that is within 4-5ish blocks of walking distance to your place. If you don't live by any decent bars, or if you don't live in a city/town where girls are down to meet you up around, then that is your first problem that needs to be fixed lmao ;)
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
nah man thats a bad strategy. Your basically suddelly suggesting that her time is more valuable than yours. The strategy behind suggesting your place is two fold. First off, most chicks dont even have logistics so their place isn't even an option. Secondly, most girls will feel more comfortable coming to your place rather than coming to yours so that you dont know where they live. Lastly, a girl that comes to your place is a lot more invested than the girl that doesn't leave her place, so she will be much more likely to smash.
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Dont even tell her you have a far drive. Bring that up later if you fuck her, if you don't fuck her don't even bring it up.
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
good point i agree with this as well