So I met this girl on Tinder and we talked for a bit back and forth and she insisted to not giver her number out until we meet in person so I wanted to get her on a date as quickly as possible; So we met yesterday, I led her to talk a walk for a while and chit chatted and then led into a park and sat there on a bench.I talked about myself a bit and showing DHV and then make her qualify and ask about her past relationship and shit and while I was talking about these I always tried to maintain strong eye contact and I started to kind of phsycially escalate ; touching her shoulder and touching her hands and playing with her hair kinda and she talked about why she on tinder and she broke up with her bf 6 weeks ago and now going on dates with people to meet and shit so I sensed that it could be def something bc she is open-minded and we talked about many shits, including sex on the surface and hookups and she never mentions that she would never do that I also implemented that I do not judge people or their decisions. So I said lets go somewhere to drink a coffee so on the way to coffee shop I asked about her friends and again challenged her to qualify to ask like'' are you a good friend etc'' and acted a bit disappointed and then I put my arms around her neck and walked a bit like that and then we got to the coffee shop and she wanted to sit opposite but I was like naa come lets sit at the swing together and we talked about her sexual experiences and shit she slept with a girl and how open minded she is and she talk to me about her fav sex position and stuff like after a while I didnt do much in the conversation and she invested a lot.and I started to escalate even more.Touch her legs and her cheeks and playing her hands BUT I PUSSY OUT TO GO FOR THE KISS AGAIN BECAUSE I MAKE EXCUSES EVEN THO THERE ARE CLEAR SIGNS THAT SHE WOULD BE OKAY WITH IT.I BELIKE SHE UST BROKE UP,SHE ISNT OK W IT PROBABLY etc like I swear to god maybe I could fuck 5 girls or smth if I had balls to go for the kiss bc they all came to home for the date and yes so I didn't go for the date and we talked more about sexual topics and then I changed the subject and chatted for a while more and then we got up. I had to go also she had to go and we walked down to city center and I hold her hand a bit and then I got her number ALSOOO THIS TIME I SET UP THE SECOND DATE ON THE FIRST DATE WELL DONE METIN) and then we went off so the same day after a few hours I texted a laid bac funny text and she responded and I said do you like wine and she said no and then I suggested ok we drink coffee and watch a film at my place.and she said sure what time so I set up the date for sure. But I think she is pretty down to fuck and I should go for the kiss and not pussy out for more this time because this time it is dead-ass serious like if I can kiss I should have got at least 5 lays already.
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I NEED HONEST FEEDBACK FROM PEOPLE WHOSE GAME GOOD ; So I am going to give as much as detail I can give; I met this girl daygaming and talked to her for 5 min or less and got the number last week and in my other post I shared the screenshots so last the same day I set up the date for today at my house.So today we met around 6 and she clearly put the effor to look good because she was not this pretty when I met her and we walked to super market , chit chatting about the day and how was the week etc laughing throwing jokes and I am kinda escalating ; taping her shoulder and touching her hand a bit so we got what we needed and then start walking to home again , I started to kind of give more intense eye cotant while walking and talked about her.Make her qualify and keep the frame because she started to test me and she started to ask a lot and she was doing the most invesment and then we finally got home, she was kinda nerveous and tense so I gave her a glass of wine and put some light slow music and we started to cook and I did most of the work.Whole time she is smiling laughing and I am tryna escalate more slowly and tryna challange her and stuff and then I was done with cooking and I said to plate the food and then we went to living room.She sat kinda next to me but I was not comfortablly reaching out to her so I sat like that a while , slowing down my voice and givr intense eye contact , she was wearing shorts and I started to toıuch her legs lightly and then I said that '' aye you smile a lot'' she responded and etc then I grabbed her hands and said '' yo lets play a game whoever smiles first and break eye contact loses'' so I got her hands and made super intense eye contact and then she smiled and then laugh so I was like yoo dont sit there , get comfortable and I just hopped a bit to the side towards her and then pulled her over so she is like literally almost on my lap, I play with her , caress her cheek and then tryna make eye contact but she was looking at staright to the wall and I said '' yo somebody is shy ha and turned her head a bit towards me and she kept looking at me for a while and then turned back and while these happening I kinda make the convo a bit sexual and kept talking and etc then I slowly started to touch her leg and shit and I did it slowly step buy step and then I started to cares her whole leg with my fingers grabbing touching and she was totally okay with it yet I went down a bit far and before that happened she said that she has to leave soonand I thought yo Metin this is your chance make it or lose it so yeah I went a bit down too far so she kinda replaced herself got a bit far and then from there I didnt try to escalate again bc she was gonna leave again.and when we were walking she said that '' I even make my friendships slowly and I dont kiss on first date and do things'' Like where did I do wrong and where did I do right? I am new to game like it has been 3 weeks maybe but before that I was reading and watching shit but this forumwith PWF but also UMP helped me a lot.But I started to feel like I am gonna die as a virgin and alone bc i already got frasturated.Like I never meet girls who are DOWN TO FUCK.I always meet with the innocent ones. Like what is a clear sign for me that I went too far too fast? when should I totally stop and when should I just chill for a few moments and then keep going? How to fuck with innocent girls? How to find DTF women? How to make sure that I close if the girl who coming doesnt have much time ?(maybe she lied idek but she has an exam on monday) how not to pussy out to go for the kiss? what is a clear sign for me to take the escalation far further? What topics we can talk about on a date that leads to sex or make her think that we gon fuck? Alexander Lindberg's video, I saw the video that he stole someone's tinder date and that woman was wild but the thing that I want to learn that she is wild inside and she knows she is so , did you make her comfortable to show her that side to you or you created a vibe that even tho she was innocent as fuck , turned into that horny and wild girl? Succsess in game also depends on screening or?Because I feel like I am fucking stupid , coudlnt even fuck one girl yet I mean until 3 weeks ago I never tried even so I couldfail but these 3 week I am really trying(not so hard still) but still no results.
I matched her and talked for a bit but she said that she wants to meet outside somewher at a cafe or something.How is my text game here doing and what exactly I should work on?
I feel like my text game is improving kinda since I have been watching PWF's content on youtube but I would love to get feedback.The only problem that I have is I can not sexualize things via text.This girl I met her on the street daygaming.Hope I can make my intent even more clear when she comes over for the date.
https://www.manleymethod.com/video-preview4 so this is a youtuber.He goes out once a week at night to a street full of fucking drunk girls who even used drugs maybe.He has like more than 1 million followers and people know him in the area pretty much and lmfao now he has a dating product.So the question that I want to ask is that this fucking boi gets girls because of his skills or hardwork of apporoaching and you know building attraction and then fucking rapport and ETC the game stuff or he can able to make and shit because he is famous and now also earn good shit bc people are buying his product and etc also it is fucking america so it is way easier to get girls than where I live.When I watch these shits I get frasturated that I do waste my time watch stuff tryna better my skillset and learn things also in this forum there are people who spent years on their techniques.
So as a beginner ; I am getting over my approach anxiety! I got rejected 4 times today because they have boyfriends with them but it was hard to understand that they are dating or not. I got 6 numbers in 20 min. Also I always went for the 8 or above and the thing that I realized that sure there are so many girls out there ho gon reject but also there are so many who is down for a good time but the thing that I don't understand is; the big deal is getting the number or being able to close? Because I make my intent clear and when I get the number I say that '' Well if you behave we might go on a date sometime'' they laugh and shit then I leave. On my last post, I talked about the situation that I got in; it was on a date with a girl who has a bf and everything was going good yet I pussy out to kiss close her. So I set up a date with another girl for Thursday to my house to cook and drink wine etc. This time I really want to seal the deal or even if I can not have sex I want to be able to kiss.Ps: I am a virgin. What could be the date structure for a house date?
I approached her on the street , she was waiting for a bus. Chat her 5 min and got her number because I had to leave. I texted back and forth and asked her out on a date so I’ll meet her tomorrow. I DID TODAY SO UPDATE: I was on the date with I flirted esc and shit like she opened and stuff and she was all okay w me touching grabing her hands hugging playin w hair massage and shit but during the whole date she said two times that she got a boyfriend so when I was aboutta kiss her , I got scared and didnt. Where did I do wrong!???? Like if u have a bf wtf why coming on a date w me.Where am I doing wrong I have no idea , I always kinda pussy out to kiss but this time I had a reason.
I matched her on tinder , talked a bit and then tried to sexualize but I am not sure if I did correctly or not but I soft closed it and then took to whatsapp and then talked to her there and build comfort and make her invest and then while excahnging voice notes I asked her whats her schedule like and she said she is busy all week.so should I keep texting her now or stop texting her for a while and then hit her up next monday?
I know I still suck but in my opinion I am kind of getting hold of it but what should be the structure in Tinder text game. Like for example , yes I opened and then should I make the conversation fun for a bit and make her invest and qualification and then comfort etc and soft close then move it to whatsapp and keep the playful vibe there and hard close? Like what is the base logic because once I get that I will apply it to every situation. Thanks a lot already
