TINDER DATE/ I MET HER UP ; I think I am not that bad as I think tho

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So I met this girl on Tinder and we talked for a bit back and forth and she insisted to not giver her number out until we meet in person so I wanted to get her on a date as quickly as possible;
So we met yesterday, I led her to talk a walk for a while and chit chatted and then led into a park and sat there on a bench.I talked about myself a bit and showing DHV and then make her qualify and ask about her past relationship and shit and while I was talking about these I always tried to maintain strong eye contact and I started to kind of phsycially escalate ; touching her shoulder and touching her hands and playing with her hair kinda and she talked about why she on tinder and she broke up with her bf 6 weeks ago and now going on dates with people to meet and shit so I sensed that it could be def something bc she is open-minded and we talked about many shits, including sex on the surface and hookups and she never mentions that she would never do that I also implemented that I do not judge people or their decisions. So I said lets go somewhere to drink a coffee so on the way to coffee shop I asked about her friends and again challenged her to qualify to ask like'' are you a good friend etc'' and acted a bit disappointed and then I put my arms around her neck and walked a bit like that and then we got to the coffee shop and she wanted to sit opposite but I was like naa come lets sit at the swing together and we talked about her sexual experiences and shit she slept with a girl and how open minded she is and she talk to me about her fav sex position and stuff like after a while I didnt do much in the conversation and she invested a lot.and I started to escalate even more.Touch her legs and her cheeks and playing her hands BUT I PUSSY OUT TO GO FOR THE KISS AGAIN BECAUSE I MAKE EXCUSES EVEN THO THERE ARE CLEAR SIGNS THAT SHE WOULD BE OKAY WITH IT.I BELIKE SHE UST BROKE UP,SHE ISNT OK W IT PROBABLY etc like I swear to god maybe I could fuck 5 girls or smth if I had balls to go for the kiss bc they all came to home for the date and yes so I didn't go for the date and we talked more about sexual topics and then I changed the subject and chatted for a while more and then we got up. I had to go also she had to go and we walked down to city center and I hold her hand a bit and then I got her number ALSOOO THIS TIME I SET UP THE SECOND DATE ON THE FIRST DATE WELL DONE METIN) and then we went off so the same day after a few hours I texted a laid bac funny text and she responded and I said do you like wine and she said no and then I suggested ok we drink coffee and watch a film at my place.and she said sure what time so I set up the date for sure. But I think she is pretty down to fuck and I should go for the kiss and not pussy out for more this time because this time it is dead-ass serious like if I can kiss I should have got at least 5 lays already.

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Brah, sounds like you know exactly what you need to do... and that is stop pussying out. Every time your mind wants to pussy out, do the opposite. Train yourself not to constantly pussy out... and shit :).

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