I approached her on the street , she was waiting for a bus. Chat her 5 min and got her number because I had to leave. I texted back and forth and asked her out on a date so I’ll meet her tomorrow.
I DID TODAY
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UPDATE: I was on the date with I flirted esc and shit like she opened and stuff and she was all okay w me touching grabing her hands hugging playin w hair massage and shit but during the whole date she said two times that she got a boyfriend so when I was aboutta kiss her , I got scared and didnt. Where did I do wrong!???? Like if u have a bf wtf why coming on a date w me.Where am I doing wrong I have no idea , I always kinda pussy out to kiss but this time I had a reason.
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So, one of two things could have happened here
This chick legitimately had no idea that you were trying to fuck her and is happy with her boyfriend. This will happen if you don't create a man to woman vibe and show intent. I wasn't there, and didn't see your initial interaction, but your textgame definitely does not communicate any intent. "tea" dates sound very innocent and I can definitely see a girl just thinking that you're looking for a friend "no offense"
She is on some level unhappy in her relationship and has needs that are not being met by her boyfriend. Basically, her subconscious is giving her mixed signals and she wants to bang on some level, and on another level does not. With these girls, you have to be extremely persistent and bring out there fun and wild side
Either way, you should never let anything a girl says make you "pussy out". Don't let her control the frame and make sure to always be communicating the intent from the start :)
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You are a mind readwr man!! ı am pretty sure throughout the date I made my intent very cleqr but as you said since I pussy out I lost the chance to ger her tho but I always get scared when I am gonna go for the kiss. Ps I am a virgin. Like i think it affects me as well so when i game my first priority finally getting someone to bang but it makes me lose everything and cause me to get insecure I guess. I should say that your videos and LR’s helped me a lot to be honest. I really appreciate all the feedback
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Happy to help man! My opinion, you should just go on tinder and set up a fuck date, this way you already know the chick wants to fuck before you meet. So, there's less pressure and less reason to get nervous. Once you lose your virginity, it will definitely feel like a weight is off your shoulders. Also, glad you've been enjoying the content :)