Hey guys, I would like to very much thank you for the content shared here, especially @avilench. This has lead in a huge positive gap in my sexual life, and in the quality of girls I hang with.
I'd like to share this experience and suggest you, if I'm entitled, to try learning a little bit of basic shibari. I have this girl I hung out yesterday. I was texting her for a week already. No prints b/c all in portuguese and there's nothing new for you: just wine closing, kinky sexual misunderstandments, logistics. She is quite younger than me (29 vs 22) and she had already had bdsm experience in a past relationship (which she mentioned was a great point in my favor for meeting). When I sent her a photo of a rope while we were teasing each other, she asked if I did shibari, mentioned she never had and that would love me for doing that. My answer to her was something akin to: "Not a professional, but definetly can do". A day before meeting her, I just watched some videos and practiced 3 ties with bottles: single column, double column and - the one I would use on her - basic box tie.
Guys, here's the video I used to learn: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sNQ5Ox4ok9Q. This is ridiculously easy to do. I practiced it one time, and got it right during our sex. The response to this was SO POSITIVE that she asked me to take a picture of her in her cellphone and send it in a whatsapp group of her girl friends. This not only raised my value TO HER, but also to all her feminine social circle.
My point with this story is: if this, A BASIC TIE, functioned so well with she, which was already a well-trained bdsm brat, I'm guessing how impressive this can be with vanila type girls. I'm definetly learning some more now.
Best regards, ~hiper
