Okay, let me contextualize. I'm a 30-year old man. I live in a mid-sized city in Brazil (250k habitants), in which countryside culture is quite strong. To be clear on what I mean, here, interesting people from the city seldomly uses Tinder. If you open Tinder, you will basically find 18-19 yo girls who just made their way to university or 30-yo girls that were already fucked by the entire city (including me).

I have a bright position as Software Engineer, with room to more improvement, working here for a multinational enterprise in Home Office regime. Also, I already fucked enough DTF girls in my life, and I'm not interested anymore in hanging out with these girls. Additionaly, I have a good hunch on parsing DTF girls from better quality partners.

So, that said, I'd like to ask you guys any recommendations for getting to know more girls that are not DTFs. Currently, I know 2 potentially good partners from the gym, but both of them have boyfriends. Approaching them in thissituation would not be of any advantage for me, because in the most optimistic scenario it would be a cheat-and-fuck situation, and for that could fuck dtfs with much less trouble.

Beyong the gym, which are other good places to get to know potentially high quality partners? As I said, my job is Home Office, so it isn't an option.