I like 3 and 4.
3 should def be your main photo, it is pretty solid.
The strong point of 4 is the smile, but try zooming in a little more, no need to show so much above you.

The idea in 1 is kind of good, the photo quality is awesome, however I don't like your pose and smile, it conveys boyish vibe. Sunglasses and bit more sassiness in the pose would make it solid.

imho, couting left-to-right, up-to-down

Row 1, Column 2 = the most solid one; good quality, looks masculine and natural;
Row 6, Column 1 = the one playing snooker. good lightning, also more masculine than the avg;
Row 5, Column 1 = that shot makes you not look as skinny as in some others.

I also like Row 3 Column 3, but I think you look just like the same as Row 1 Column 2, and the latter has better lightning.

As for the other ones, even though I think they are good IG photos to convey a nice lifestyle, I don't think they are really fit for Dating Apps, because we all know that there you just want to show the most solid shots. Row 3 Column 2 might be the only other one I might consider IF, and just IF, you could zoom it a little be more without losing image quality. The shot and the pose are good, but the distance makes you look kind of small.

Same city, large city in brazil.
Thanks for your response
Of these ones, which ones in your opinion is keepable?

By ignoring her provocation, you'll certainly call her attention.

I think reframing is the best strategy there, b.c. the jokes are just going nowhere good. I'd answer now exactly: "I'm , how are you doing?". Keep some tension avoiding lols/emojis. I'm sure she'll answer it properly and you can go from there.

Context is a bit vague, but I think i'd hold the frame with "Nope" or "You certainly felt that one". No laughs and no emojis. You want to keep the tension until she's the one asking for relief.

so answer her, 8 inch

Two things:

1. idk if you was texting badly, would need more context of what happened before but
2. you shouldn't have sent that text so promptly. that kind of signalized you reacted emotionally to her flakes, what is precisely the wrong move when girls flake/shit test. I'm not saying what you said is wrong, it is actually right, but i think on that stage we must be able to be a little more unnafected by the girls actions. You could have answered her with something like "am I?" and let her explain herself more, what would put her in a position of vulnerability, since she would have to be the one giving explanations.

Now, with regards to what to do now, I'm not advanced, so my hint should not be taken as golden rule. But I think the best frame would NOT be saying things like "don't worry". Since she's already the one sorrying about, maybe using the frame to troll her might be a good option. What I mean would be to respond something like: "Yea, you messed, let's see what you can do now to fix it". But as I said, I'm no advanced, so it'd be better to take more opinions.

I also don't like it. The posture made you look small. I think a good one would be something akin to this: https://www.atptour.com/-/media/images/news/2019/12/16/18/40/nadal-2010-us-open-3.jpg (lol i'm not joking, just giving you an example)

Pic 4 is by far your best pose. But quality is very bad. You should try taking other pictures making the same pose/smile as in Pic 4.