I matched this girl in December 2023, we spoke for a few weeks but I noticed she was very inconsistent with her response times. She’s abroad as well, but I’d find myself messaging her and not hearing from her for 4 days then she’s message. We went back and forth for a while the usual talk, then it came to number close. She asked me for my number, but because of her inconsistent responses I told her send me hers as I had a feeling me sending mine would lead to low response rate, to which she didn’t respond, so I call her out and she sends a voice note saying she asked for my number and I didn’t give it, so I complied and sent my number, nothing..I waited a few weeks and called her out but nothing came so I just left it and moved on. 3 months later (3 weeks ago to be exact) I get a random text and it’s her, so I figured may as well see where it goes, she tells me she’s down to make plans but then it’s the same patterns emerging again with her. I’ve attached screenshots of the last few exchanges where I call her out. This ones frustrating me, I’ve called her out and it worked slightly, then we’re back to square one again. I feel to call her out again in a week or so, and be a bit more firm. My first call out I kept it calm and didn’t want to sound butthurt, but since she’s the one who initiated contact again after 3 months I think I have good reason to cal out again if she doesn’t reply and just give a final yes or no to any plans, I like this one a lot but I have got so many other leads it ain’t worth the headache.
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This girls an inch taller, a model, our convo was decent over the app but has been significantly better over text once I closed the number. I knew she was taller as she’s a model, and I’ve encountered this situation a few times and learned from my initial mistake. I think my response was good, it’s a normal question girls may have and I found that embracing the height works well in the past. However I’ve yet to get a response on this one, so wanted to prep for any follow ups I can send.
Any witty ways I can spark this one up? I was torn between an honest response or flirty banter to her question, but since her profile was kinda serious I chose to give a normal response, but no luck yet.
I matched this girl on tinder, closed her number very easy and she was very responsive on there. As soon as we go to whatapp the whole dynamics changed and she was barely responding. I called her out on it one night and she starting video calling me, which I hate since I can’t just pick up a video call randomly, they need to be planned out in accordance with what I’m doing that day, but also what I’m wearing etc. at the time she called, im laying on my sofa in home gear and not in the mood to be gaming a girl on the phone. I told her I’ll call her back sometime next week, while also trying to get her to engage in the text by asking if she’s down to make plans for the summer (she’s abroad). No response again. This week I sent a video of me riding around my city with a satirical hashtag and she blocked me. I realise I kinda shot myself in the food by not calling back but video calls like I said ain’t something I do because I’m busy or just the timings off. I texted her over sms shortly after and she said we’re wasting time, and blocked me on there again. Can I salvage this one? She’s still matched on my tinder as of now but I anticipate this may change, any solutions? I’m thinking if she’s still matched on tinder, wait a bit and send something on there, but if she’s unmatched then I gotta use the texting method Alex suggested by using those apps to text from a different number, but the question is how do I frame it to see if she will unblock?
I matched this dime piece model 22 year old student on tinder, her response rate was swift and I closed the number quickly. Plan was to get her over to my country at some point if I’m not back in the states soon. Anyway once I closed the number, over texting it’s the complete opposite of tinder and she’s not responding at all. What’s the ideal next step here? I do the IG check to make sure they’re not a catfish, and she’s fine so that’s why I didn’t continue that and moved on to just basic questions. Asking girls what they study usually worked for me as a way to engage in some flirty banter but this time it’s not worked yet.
Had this today and was expecting to possibly have this rebuttal. Any ideas for a good response? Shes Muslim btw.
Any ideas on how to proceed with this? Usually I don’t bother when it’s these kinda girls because when they message straight away asking to add snap or instagram it’s usually a onlyfans thing or fake, but this one seems like it might be able to get an outcome.
I have a bad record with milfs as they often lose interest, I can’t seem to keep the convo enough to get. Whats a good response to get this one rolling?
For Context, she lives in a country that’s not too far from mine, about 2 hours max, which I sometimes pass through. This chats longer, and involves the usual back and forth but I’ve attached a screen of the last exchange where she didn’t reply to my answer to her questions, only liked it. This was Monday, and it’s time to begin to close the number but I don’t want to fumble it . Any recommendations?
I’ve decided to try IG again, but my problem has always been I never used IG, so I have 0 followers but a few decent photos. What’s the best route for Me? Of course long term it’s building followers but my current situation is no followers, is there a good way around this with a few good photos?
