Blocked for not being able to pick up video calls...solution?
I matched this girl on tinder, closed her number very easy and she was very responsive on there. As soon as we go to whatapp the whole dynamics changed and she was barely responding. I called her out on it one night and she starting video calling me, which I hate since I can’t just pick up a video call randomly, they need to be planned out in accordance with what I’m doing that day, but also what I’m wearing etc. at the time she called, im laying on my sofa in home gear and not in the mood to be gaming a girl on the phone.
I told her I’ll call her back sometime next week, while also trying to get her to engage in the text by asking if she’s down to make plans for the summer (she’s abroad). No response again. This week I sent a video of me riding around my city with a satirical hashtag and she blocked me. I realise I kinda shot myself in the food by not calling back but video calls like I said ain’t something I do because I’m busy or just the timings off.
I texted her over sms shortly after and she said we’re wasting time, and blocked me on there again. Can I salvage this one? She’s still matched on my tinder as of now but I anticipate this may change, any solutions?
I’m thinking if she’s still matched on tinder, wait a bit and send something on there, but if she’s unmatched then I gotta use the texting method Alex suggested by using those apps to text from a different number, but the question is how do I frame it to see if she will unblock?
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She blocked you 2x, just let it go. Her calling u a retard and being so pissed off over text just cuz u didnt pick up her call 1 time is a big red flag anyway lol stay away from her
When she called, you should have just called her back. I get u werent in the mood to game her but if she wanted to talk over the phone that means she was willing to invest big time. You should have just talked to her for 5-10min and then make an excuse that you need to go but that u would love to go out w her in person sometime
I’m not actually sure if she blocked me twice, on iMessage I assumed I was blocked because when I sent the last message it didn’t show delivered, but when I checked a few hours later it showed it had been delivered. She’s still in my tinder match list so I guess it won’t hurt to try again, I honestly just didn’t find the right time to do a video call tbh, it’s kinda long but maybe I can tell her we’ll do one this Sunday or something.
But your right, it’s a red flag when they don’t text back and insist on video calling etc, so I ain’t too fussed, but she’s a legit 9 and they don’t come around much on tinder anymore. Tinders become a struggle because the girls on there these days are all the same single mums. A year ago all I saw were dimes.
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She seems weird honestly. She called you a retard for not being able to talk on the phone. I'd say you dodged a bullet
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It’s possible, but then tbh women can be weird in general, could just be her way of being humorous. and I noticed she has trouble putting sentences together with her spelling etc. so I’m willing to give her the benefit of the doubt since she may have suspicions I’m a catfish for not picking up the phone.
Either way she’s still in my tinder list, so I’ll see if she’s off her period in a few days and hit her up to see if she’s gonna unblock me. I’ll know more on the video call if I do get there. Remember she’s abroad so it makes things a bit different.
I’ve encountered a real dry spell of attractive women on these apps, seems the quality of girls to like/swipe on has gone down hugely. Before I’d come across 8+ every day, now I barely see 6s.