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Should I continue to escalate it or pull back and keep teasing her? Thanks for the help

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Part of me thinks this a legit excuse and she did mention to reschedule. Not sure though. For more context, last week when I tried to make plans she had said she was too busy, but that next week would work. Thanks for any response help here.

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I met this girl at the bar over the weekend and we had a strong vibe. She brought up watching a movie at my house I teased her about stealing my comfy hoodie, which is why I referred back to that in this interaction. How do I get past this? Thanks for the help.

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I met this girl at happy hour a couple weeks ago and got her number. I found out she goes to the same beach I go to and she invited me that weekend to come with my friends to her house and then we’d go out together. I wasn’t able to go because something came up and I haven’t been able to move forward for a date. I don’t know when I’ll be at the beach again, so I need to try to move forward for a date in the city we live in. Any ideas for a response here? Thanks for the help

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I met this girl last week at the bar and we made out before I had to leave. I’ve been texting her but not sure where to go here. Im thinking go sexual instead of humor here though. Any response ideas? Thanks for the help

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I met this girl at the bar over a month ago and we had a decent vibe and we texted for a bit until she finally told me she had a boyfriend. She has texted me twice in the last 2 weeks so I’m not really sure what to do here. Any thoughts/responses would help thanks.

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This is the same girl I’ve posted about a few times now. I finally was able to close and gave her a choice of sat or sun for our date. I probably should’ve Jaír went right with like Saturday at x time, but I wanted to give options just in case. She responds with a stupid excuse that seems like she’s ignoring the date kind of. I was thinking of saying something along the lines of “let’s go out Saturday night and I’ll have you back to your friends in an hour”. I think using a false time constraint could be good here because I know if we meet I can close. Any other response ideas? Thanks for the help

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I’m in a pretty good spot here, I just have to get passed this one last little shit test here. I was thinking to just brush it off and go right into suggesting a day. Maybe say “Ok deal. Are you free Sunday night”? Is there a better response Here? Just been overthinking too much recently. Thanks for help.

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Her response seems like an opening to a sexual innuendo, but I’m not sure if that’s too much here. Should I just suggest a different alcohol instead or something else. Thanks for the help

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I’ve been going back and forth with this girl after we met at the bar. She seems to be a brat and is definitely giving me a shit test here. I was thinking maybe “keep up that attitude and I’ll have to spank the brat out of you”. Any other ideas for a good response here? Thanks for the help

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