I didn’t see your message in time, I wind up saying “yes how did you know” and she hasn’t answered. I’m thinking she may be interpreting it wrong, so do you think “hopefully you didn’t take that seriously” would be a good follow up or do you have a suggestion? Thanks for the help

I agree but I’m just not sure enough with my response. Do you have any suggestions?

Thanks this sounds good and should align with the frame I’m setting here

I completely agree. The thing is I’m not currently active on dating apps and yeah it’s possible I see her out but that’s like a toss up. It’s way more likely I’ll close and it will go well if I actually go out with her. I say that because I know 2 of her friends and they cock blocked me last time with one of their other friends. I’m thinking of saying something like let’s meet Sunday night a x time and if not I’ll move on. Just cause personally ghosting isn’t really my thing. Do you have any thoughts for an alternative option?

Yeah you’re right. I have been legitimately busy for the past two weeks, which is why I’m seriously trying to make plans now. You thinking ghosting her is my best case scenario to see her instead of just being direct?

Awesome thanks

Yeah that makes sense. Do you have any suggestions on a better response?

Cool thanks

We pretty much just talked about working out after I asked her about glute exercises to do. Is it fine to just open with “it’s Gerald. What’s your workout split?”

“I’m not worried at all”