Comments by Mister Fister
Joined 3y ago31 Posts (+0), 60 Cmts (+22)
Honestly I haven't figured it out yet. It seems to be a massive issue for almost every girl
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I don't really see how she could take it the wrong way. Seems like you'd really have to twist the phrase to make it anything other than a compliment.
Don't apologize though., that's a low-T move. Own it and move on.
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Sounds like a great learning experience. Don't feel bad about this at all, you did way better than me on my first pull recently. I got her to my house but wasn't able to escalate or even kiss even though she was giving signals.
My 10+ year marriage to a prude who would turn down nearly all my advances (who turns out is lesbian) has obliterated my confidence in sexually advancing on women. Slowly testing things on hinge/bumble dates and getting better...
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Ha, that would have been a much better response.
Trying to learn from my fuckups.
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Alright thanks, that's a good take on the situation. I knew that my response to enlighten me was bad, but I wavered for a long time on what to say and eventually decided I'd just have to send something. I'll your advice in mind -- always be adding to the conversation and remain consistent.
I don't know if it's technically a shit-test, but I remember this chick, I matched with her a few months ago and I remember her playing really hard to get and she unmatched me back then too haha. I suppose if I match her again in a few months I'll try a new strategy.
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It sounds like you have enough investment to call out the situation. Basically tell her what you're telling us here. You want to make it work but you're not going to deal with the hot and cold shit. She needs to decide if she wants to commit and make it work or cut it off.
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It's certainly not a genuine concern. People leave their dogs alone all the time and there's no way she would cut a date short just to go socialize with her dog.
Perhaps she's giving herself an excuse or an "easy out" if she wants to leave early for whatever reason. Your response is good, keeping it lighthearted and semi-joking.
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Well it's been a day and a half and she hasn't responded. Might have been too much for her
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Thanks man. Used the first line. If she asks for more, I'll tell her she'll have to find out in person


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I'm pretty sure bios have a character limit