Girl unmatched. What would have been the right move here?
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I don't have a screenshot because she unmatched. But the conversation went like this:
Me: "Alright I'm the one, you'll be able to delete this app soon š"
Her: "So sure??"
Me: "Definitely. You'll find out soon enough"
Her: "Enlighten me"
At this point I knew it was a shit test and didn't know the proper response. I searched the PWF forum for inspiration and settled on trying to change the subject and staying playful by saying "Alright I lied. You just seemed like my type".
She responded with "What makes you say that??"
And then she unmatched before I could respond.
What would have been the proper response to "Enlighten me"? I think this was the turning point.
The thing with your opening 2 lines. Some may find that funny. Some may just find it arrogant. Seems like she may have been in the 2nd camp.
Changing the subject was the mistake. Saying "I lied" and then copied/pasted another line. It just comes off inconsistent and like chatgpt.
A good response may have been to compliment her, tease her or pick something out of her photos that is your type.
It doesn't sound like she was doing any shit-test. You just made a bold claim (jokingly) and she was curious. And then you gave 2 replies that didn't really add anything to the conversation at all.
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Alright thanks, that's a good take on the situation. I knew that my response to enlighten me was bad, but I wavered for a long time on what to say and eventually decided I'd just have to send something. I'll your advice in mind -- always be adding to the conversation and remain consistent.
I don't know if it's technically a shit-test, but I remember this chick, I matched with her a few months ago and I remember her playing really hard to get and she unmatched me back then too haha. I suppose if I match her again in a few months I'll try a new strategy.
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Enlightenment can only be gained in person.
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Ha, that would have been a much better response.
Trying to learn from my fuckups.