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New kind of spammer? "But without da"

I've been seeing a lot of profiles, especially on Bumble, with a snapchat or instagram handle but it always follows the same format: "ashleyyy109 but without da 109" "briannaX7 but without da X7" Something like that. What's the deal with this? My first hypothesis is this: Does bumble identify and ban actual links to other social media so the chick adds numbers so it's not a real handle (and accepted by Bumble) but the "but without da" lets guys know the actual link? Let me know what you guys know about this. I'm seeing it a ton in the last week. All bots I'm presuming?

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What's the deal with WhatsApp?

Just swapped numbers with a chick and after I asked if she was free for a call to figure out the logistics of the date, she said "Why don't you chat me on WhatsApp?". I'm cutting it off right here. Every lead that I've had that has made it on to WhatsApp has been a scammer/catfish. What is the point of scammers trying to take you to WhatsApp? I understand the bots trying to lead you to snapchat/instagram -- that gains followers. But what's the end-goal of getting you on whatsapp?

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How to respond to "I saw you have kids and got spooked"?

For months I hid the fact that I have kids on my profiles but usually first dates would go well at first, then went to complete shit after the women found out I had kids. So now I have "have kids" on my profiles; I'd rather lose the women up front and not match then to waste time on dates that aren't going to go anywhere. So anyways, this chick matched with me and then later looked at my profile again and saw the "has kids". What would be a good response to the attachment -- I feel like making a joke about it but it seems to be a real hold-up and probably dealbreaker for her. So joking probably isn't the best route. I figure I probably lost her already but it would be good to bounce this off of you guys for future reference

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What's the deal with chicks having a "date proposal email address"?

See attached picture. I'm seeing this more and more. Seems simpy and low-value to actually make a proposal, feels like putting the chick on a pedestal. In addition, she'll have your email address, which could be phishy. Anybody know what the deal is with date proposal email addresses? Feels like a giant red flag to me and I'm starting to see it a lot -- I feel like it's bots/fake accounts.

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Girl unmatched. What would have been the right move here?

I don't have a screenshot because she unmatched. But the conversation went like this: Me: "Alright I'm the one, you'll be able to delete this app soon 😉" Her: "So sure??" Me: "Definitely. You'll find out soon enough" Her: "Enlighten me" At this point I knew it was a shit test and didn't know the proper response. I searched the PWF forum for inspiration and settled on trying to change the subject and staying playful by saying "Alright I lied. You just seemed like my type". She responded with "What makes you say that??" And then she unmatched before I could respond. What would have been the proper response to "Enlighten me"? I think this was the turning point.

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Help sexting - she's giving the green light

Ideas on where to go from here?

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How to respond to "I have many kinks"? without turning it up to 100

I want to acknowledge the effort she made toward actually answering the "kinks" part -- a lot of chicks just ignore that part. However, there would be an incongruence if I followed up with one of Alex's full-blown lines about spanking, oral and edging her and stuff -- I'm not that experienced and I wouldn't be able to follow that sort of line up. I'd fuck it up soon afterwards. Plus my profile isn't overtly sexual. How can use her green light toward sexualizing more, but a bit more slowly?

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Here's a challenge - let's see what you guys can come up with. Dom/sub re-match

Here's the background -- matched with her 4 months ago and got her phone number and snap. After a bit of texting, she ghosted me and I moved on. I recently discovered her back on the apps again and now she's explicit about being a sub looking for a dom. I didn't pick up on this the first time -- I thought she was a conservative christian chick so my texting was pretty tame which must have bored her. She re-matched me with the attached messages -- it looks like she's giving me another chance to make up for the fact that I didn't pick up on what she was looking for the first time. Where should I go from here?

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Re-engaging with a chick I matched with months ago who is now open about being sub looking for dom

Matched and got her phone number and snapchat about 3 months ago. She deleted all the apps soon afterwards. With 2 or 3 days of texting, I couldn't get enough investment from her to secure a date so I moved on. Now she's back on the apps and her profiles are different -- now she's direct about being a sub and wanting a dom. When I saw she re-downloaded the apps, I sent her a picture (via snapchat) of her bumble profile and said "Found this chick on bumble. She looks like trouble so I haven't decided how to swipe yet". She responded with "Lol I knew I should've re-downloaded that". So I have some initial investment and now I know she's a sub and is looking for a dom (I think I fucked up by being too passive the first time, thinking she was more conservative, so she got bored and stop engaging with me). I'm not very experienced in D/s -- how can I proceed with getting her interested? I can proceed by text or maybe keeping it casual through snapchat, since she seems receptive on there. Maybe a suggestive or d/s meme through snapchat to see how she responds?

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How to re-engage? Should I change the subject

Due to the way I left off here, how can I re-engage without sounding weak? Should I ignore the fact that I hinted at the date or double down?

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