Reconnecting with girl over a year after we dated for 2 months. Is she playing games?
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1 Cmt
2y ago *
She ended up ghosting me when we originally dated, for whatever reason.
I cut out most of the Hinge convo because it was mostly callback jokes from when we dated before.
She seemed very interested in hanging out again, but when I tried to confirm for the next day, she gave me the silent treatment.
I should let you know this was a pattern when we dated before. She would be very keen when texting, but then go silent randomly, often for several days, usually this happened when I tried to hang out with her/ go for logistics. I don't know if she's just playing a game for attention or maybe testing me? Either way it feels toxic af
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31 Posts (+0), 60 Cmts (+22)
It sounds like you have enough investment to call out the situation. Basically tell her what you're telling us here. You want to make it work but you're not going to deal with the hot and cold shit. She needs to decide if she wants to commit and make it work or cut it off.