Comments by John A
Joined 5y agoRight, I agree it all depends on context but that's why I had the screenshots. It's easy to give general advice but harder to actually prove it with concrete tips. That's why I asked if you could provide specifics - feel free to go off the screenshots provided for context
Thanks but can you give me concrete examples of what you'd say differently?
Interesting, thanks. I use a mix of your texting style and my own from before I learned 'official' text game. Before Christmas, I was going on dates almost every day of the week, sometimes up to 3 a day. Got super burnt out but coming back now.
Guess I should be more satisfied with my results lol.
Lol, if it's everywhere, then it might be a texting issue...
Tbh, I find girls who reply too easily for a meetup are often guaranteed to be flakes. Not sure how to fix it exactly outside of qualifying them more (which they then proceed to ghost) but others chime in if you have suggestions.
Cool thanks. @avilench, what about from your perspective? What's a 'normally good' conversion rate for online

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Cool, thanks I've read a lot of your work and watched a lot of your videos - really good stuff, so thanks. I tried to start it off with humor (e.g. you're either really good at standing or riding horses, trying to decide the meaning of this, etc) and some flirting down the line (e.g. not bad, we might have potential), but it still stalled out. Are you saying that I should do more flirting/humor and even less personality questions/topics?
Wonder what's the right balance between the flirting/humor and a 'deeper' connection bc I found that when I went too flirty or teasing before, it'll stall out even faster...
Pains me sometimes to lose these girls due to convo stalling bc some of them are literally smoking hot...like hotter than even porn stars