I try to (1) keep it as invested as the girl or less, (2) fun/flirty, and (3) soft close when ready but I seem to get a lot of ghosting on hinge. These girls are cute but the flake rate is ~80%. Anything obvious I'm messing up on? 3 sets of examples attached, with varying levels of investment from the girl from start to finish. I've tried investing even less before but got even more ghosting, which is why my messages are now between 70-100% the length of hers.
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Thanks but can you give me concrete examples of what you'd say differently?
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All depends on context man but for example I would skip the small talk kind of questions. Just add some humor and move things forward progressively. The conversations you’re having seem very logical. Women are more emotional so its not necessarily what you say, but what it subcommunicates.
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Right, I agree it all depends on context but that's why I had the screenshots. It's easy to give general advice but harder to actually prove it with concrete tips. That's why I asked if you could provide specifics - feel free to go off the screenshots provided for context