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Hey over the last year or so I have lost a handful of some good FWBs I think because I was just keeping it to sex , not having a lot of contact or conversation on phone etc... Wondering if some can give advice on keeping FWBs... thinking back thinking i should have had a meal with them ...maybe a meal every now and then...and not just make it sex where she comes to my place... I did have one where she invited me to parties and met her friends...and that was bad idea i realize...but other ones.. i have had good times with but then all of the sudden they just disappear...any ideas tips or tricks for keeping FWBs longer?

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ultimate man project

hey what do you guys think of this? noticed many similarities between the two...and i think that Alex did learn some game from David Swift and it seems they have some very good info... not sure if UMP got stuff from PWF or vice-versa... just curious about your thoughts on David Swift and UMP

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wine on my romantic balcony

many times in a text conversation I will mention the line "wine on my romantic balcony" and she wont disagree but then later when we are about to make plans...she will say where do we meet or will offer other places to meet... many times i just reiterate what i first said wine on balcony...does anyone else run into this? any tips or tricks on this when this happens? maybe a shit test or just ignoring what i first mentioned in terms of the meetup

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When they wont kiss you the first time

One thing I have noticed with many of my house wine dates is if women arent willing to kiss you the first time...or if they shy away and turn to the cheek etc... usually you dont wind up either smashing on the 1st date or even seeing them again. Ive had women tell me all kinds of crazy shit about not kissing on 1st date...etc and either havent smashed and have not seen them again after 1st time. Thinking to save time do you all agree if you go for kiss and they shy away or say i need to get to know you more unless there are other signs of attraction... not to waste time or have any of you had this and have been able to smash or see them again... I think just about every girl i have had to my place (from online date) which didnt at the very least kiss... didnt see them again even if they agreed to something later or such... thoughts?

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Not able to exit Bumble

Im in the Bumble app and was trying to upload a pic from another application... I have an android so there is no way to close this other application but even though i am in this application still shows me as logged into Bumble. I tried a force stop on Bumble to see if it would reset but didnt work.. When I click on Bumble it takes me right to the photo in this application so not able to get past this...any ideas from anyone?

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Hey guys time for some honesty. I was doing ok on tinder and Bumble but now not so great.. Please rate these pics... Many are selfies which is probably not good... Also put my tinder profile and seeing of any ways of improving it.. Im using the shirtless one and getting good response from fb dating but not as well with tinder Bumble... Thx

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Mindset on going out meeting girls for a drink at bar instead of them coming to your place

Need help with my mindset on meeting girls out at a bar instead of them coming to my place. I've had very good success with girls coming to my place and smashing but feel like I've missed out on some lays with not wanting to go out and meet a girl for a drink. Im not much of a drinker so when they come over... im usually having water or diet sprite in a cocktail glass when they are having vodka... if we go to a bar i can do they same thing...get there first order a water with lime and when she comes just get her a drink so really only paying price of one drink but since ive had good results with house dates havent been as forthcoming as wanting to meet a girl at bar...almost like if she doesnt want to come to my place then it seems lost...or if even asking her to come to my place makes her not even want to meet me at a bar... havent had good experience with meeting girls at bar except maybe a few makeouts at my place but alot of them end up in not coming back to my place... so am wondering maybe i need to change my mindset on this or if anyone can provide tips or wisdom would greatly appreciate it... need to be comfortable when a girl objects coming to my place that meeting her is next option and its going to work well... ive met some girls at starbucks then came back to my place to smash and even met a couple of girls in parking lot at a store and they drove back and we smashed...so it might have just been the girls... i generally though want to see girls before i meet them in a public place... dont want a girl to show up not looking anything like her picture... maybe thats part of the issue... sometimes ill tell a girl to meet outside the bar before we go in because i want to make sure she looks good...thoughts appreciated...thanks! ps... what alex and pwf has done has been incredible...have had amazing success with dates and girls coming to my place...have a few girls now im seeing but its sporadic because one works weird hours...the other has 2 kids... the other barely has time available so we see each other when we can.. but all of these is from online... and a couple of girls i met in cold approach

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how do you get a girl to your place after you have gotten her number

so many times i will use the wine close and ask if she likes wine..then will say we should split a bottle sometime soon then get her number... after texting on phone i will get a night where we can meet then she will ask when and where...manytimes i will say lets split a bottle on my romantic balcony...and sometimes will say "romantic balcony" ... recently when i have done this... 3 straight women ghosted me... one actually said so you are the type of guy who invites girls to your home then ghosted me... so think it wouldnt have happened anyway...seems most girls that dont come to the house and have to meet out unless they are dtf...really arent going to do anything...thoughts?

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here is a place i have used in the past with good success which has a booth... noticed many times i would be across from the girl which isnt good... sometimes i would be able to sit next to her after a drink or something...does anyone have some polished ways of getting closer to the girl when sitting in a booth? i mean there are times when i would tell a girl i am going to sit next to her and she would say not just yet or something like that which can tell you about attraction level etc... any thoughts?

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How to text a girl to come to your place after you have exchanged numbers

So what is the best way to tell a girl you want her to come to your place for a drink? During the text I will ask her do you like wine? then I will say we should split a bottle sometime soon... then get her number etc... then while texting when we talk about particulars... i would in the past say "lets split a bottle of wine on my romantic balcony" ...is there a better way of doing this since i havent done it initially before i got her number? the last 3 girls i have done this with have all had bad reactions to me even asking for her to come to my place... all 3 of blown me off lol... thoughts/suggestions would be appreciated...thx

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