how do you get a girl to your place after you have gotten her number
so many times i will use the wine close and ask if she likes wine..then will say we should split a bottle sometime soon then get her number... after texting on phone i will get a night where we can meet then she will ask when and where...manytimes i will say lets split a bottle on my romantic balcony...and sometimes will say "romantic balcony" ... recently when i have done this... 3 straight women ghosted me... one actually said so you are the type of guy who invites girls to your home then ghosted me... so think it wouldnt have happened anyway...seems most girls that dont come to the house and have to meet out unless they are dtf...really arent going to do anything...thoughts?
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Need screenshots to determine if it's something you're doing/saying etc. and for some more context to help
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Could be a reasonable objection, answer with something accommodating, or my personal favorite, “if your too nervous I’d understand”
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I personally use the straight to the house invitation as a way to screen. If a girl makes that much of a big deal about it, then I don't wanna meet her anyway. Sometimes though, if I get the vibe that the girl won't be into it and I really want to meet her, I'll just offer to meet her at a bar. Either, or is fine
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I see... But I have seen Alex where you and others will close with... Let's split a bottle sometime soon... Without saying on my romantic balcony... Then get number then on text say let's meet at my place etc... Think this is a good way to do it because you have her number etc for sexting etc.. Vibing then get her comfortable to seeing you at your place... If you do it right away she will object.. Thoughts?
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yeah thats fine but its always implied from the start that its going to be at my place, but I don't think it'll make that much of a difference in wether she will meet at your place or not