many times in a text conversation I will mention the line "wine on my romantic balcony" and she wont disagree but then later when we are about to make plans...she will say where do we meet or will offer other places to meet... many times i just reiterate what i first said wine on balcony...does anyone else run into this? any tips or tricks on this when this happens? maybe a shit test or just ignoring what i first mentioned in terms of the meetup