Usually it's a sign of a time waster, she just wants more followers. I wouldn't waste my time

What were you expecting dude

Yes, but the response depends on the girl, and it's usually a push pull phrase.

Thanks, tho i feel like some girls get defensive with the shyness thing

Thanks. What would be a good re opener tho?

Thanks. What would be a good re opener tho?

Hey Alex. Thanks for your reply

I know, it was a terrible line, sadly it happens often that I only realize when it's too late.

Im a really laid back guy in real life, my game is mostly based on non verbal communication, that's why I feel so unnatural when texting, as I have to be really "out there". On dates I do excellent, but when it comes to online dating I really struggle getting to that point as l have to text.

She actually replied at like 6 am today without me texting her anything beforehand, apologizing and saying that the reason she's been absent is because work has been crazy.

I replied:
Hey there.
Yeah I can see that by how early you have to wake up.
Sounds like you could really use a good distraction to get rid of that stress.

Was it a decent text? My intention was to lead things into hanging out. Tho in hindsight I could have framed it in a way that sparked her curiosity more.

Hey. Thanks for your comment.
I don't really see how I'm simping? Like I didn't ever compliment her

She actually replied at like 6 am today without me texting her anything beforehand, apologizing and saying that the reason she's been absent is because work has been crazy.

I replied:
Hey there.
Yeah I can see that by how early you have to wake up.
Sounds like you could really use a good distraction to get rid of that stress.

Was it a decent text? My intention was to lead things into hanging out. Tho in hindsight I could have framed it in a way that sparked her curiosity more.

Hey, thanks for the reply. I'm going to give you the full Convo, translated of course.
The cringey line I mentioned is literally the only thing I've texted her since she gave me her number, so she has technically never replied on WhatsApp. It was my opener.

Actually I already used the skeleton meme earlier, so i can't use it again. Or can I?
I think we can all recognize Ryan gosling but it's just a lot less relatable

I didn't say who I was but I assumed she would figure it out by looking at my WhatsApp profile pic.

I really want to save this one.

Thanks. I'll keep it in mind.
Do you have any recommendation on how to recover?

Hey thanks for your input. You are right about the abundance thing. It's just that things with girls right now are getting so frustrating and absurd that it's starting to get to me. Like for instance this particular girl had a particularly interesting personality and seemed very interested up until now. I feel like I have fucked up so much lately and don't know how to stop it.

And with the comeback lines, i wonder if it's a good idea to keep pushing for a response over the same topic (which was a cringe opener) or if it's better to re open from zero. I think @avilench . suggested the Ryan Gosling meme in the past, but I can't use it because:

1. she's not from that generation, she's only 20 years old.
2. We are both in and from Colombia, so it's not something culturally relevant.

Hopefully @.Eric . can give some insight too.