Hey guys, so i matched a couple hours ago with a gorgeous chick who opened me first (a very bland way to open but still). I tried to use a short 3 message back and forth routine but she didn't respond how 99% of people do so now i don't know if it got weird for trying to force it or what.
Usually my routine goes like this.
Me: Hey X. I'm worried about something
X: Hey! What are you worried about?
Me: Ill tell you only under one condition
X: Ok which is it?
Me: When we hang out I'll get the drinks but the dessert is on you, deal?
X: Okay sounds good.
But this time the Convo went like this:
Her: 👋
Me: Hey X, I'm worried about something
Her: Hey! tell me about it
Me: Okay I'll tell you but only under one condition
Her: ☹️
Me: Why the sad face, it's a good condition, don't worry. I promise
That's it, no response. Only like and hour has passed but she opened me so quickly and was responding instantly so I don't thanks she's going to reply ever again.
How bad was that last text, and what should I do next
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I’d just wait a while and re-engage. Not a big deal yet imo. Also she isn’t investing a ton yet so I would try to match her energy going forward
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Just wait 24-48 hours.
I would have just told her your line "when we hang...deal?" to the sad face anyway lol
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Thanks. What would be a good re opener tho?
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"Don't be shy now"
Also, just curious, the 'I'm worried about something' line... do you end up playing off that later on? Because you say you'll tell them after the condition of hanging out and drinks...