Hey guys. So this girl gave me her number on tinder. I texted her something that is very very corny in hindsight. She obviously has not responded and it's been like 3 hours and she has been online, so it's pretty sure she is just going to ignore me. I took her as the quirky girl type, or e-girl I guess. She has the photo of a baby cat drooling while sleeping. So I said: Hey Sara. We don't know each other that much yet, but i feel like a drooling kitten as a profile pic it's definitely so you. Is there any good recovery lines for this? How much should I wait?
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Hey thanks for your input. You are right about the abundance thing. It's just that things with girls right now are getting so frustrating and absurd that it's starting to get to me. Like for instance this particular girl had a particularly interesting personality and seemed very interested up until now. I feel like I have fucked up so much lately and don't know how to stop it.
And with the comeback lines, i wonder if it's a good idea to keep pushing for a response over the same topic (which was a cringe opener) or if it's better to re open from zero. I think @avilench . suggested the Ryan Gosling meme in the past, but I can't use it because:
Hopefully @.Eric . can give some insight too.
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Make a meme with Justing bieber then. Ryan gosling is not the only celebrity
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Was this the first message you sent to her phone after getting her number from tinder?
Does she know that's your number?
Remember once you get a womans phone number try to keep the banter to a minimum, make the conversation more about setting up the date and less about keeping her entertained. Especially if that's what you feel like you're messing up on. Less is more.
I'm sure even women from Columbia know who ryan gosling is. But you can also use the skeleton meme " waiting on your reply "
Or you can say " don't worry, this can be our secret"
" Are you always this talkative" or " am I wrong" like suggested. You want to wait at least a couple days before you do any of this, give her some time to respond, if she gets the feeling you're needy or desperate she's going to either ghost you or flake out on the date
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Hey, thanks for the reply. I'm going to give you the full Convo, translated of course.
The cringey line I mentioned is literally the only thing I've texted her since she gave me her number, so she has technically never replied on WhatsApp. It was my opener.
Actually I already used the skeleton meme earlier, so i can't use it again. Or can I?
I think we can all recognize Ryan gosling but it's just a lot less relatable
I didn't say who I was but I assumed she would figure it out by looking at my WhatsApp profile pic.
I really want to save this one.
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