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"24 male. Here to have more success with online dating off of what ive already achieved and learn and adopt new strategies along the way."

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Hi everyone, I wanted to get some advice on if other guys in their 20s are experiencing this too. But I noticed alot of girls I've been going out with recently have been display some sense of attitude and ego issues. I met a few girls since the holidays last year, and I had good experiences with two of them who were attracted to me and made out with me on the first date. But then I had this one girl Meg, who acted cold and didnt feel a connection and then said my home state sucks. Then this other girl Stuti ended up insulting me on a second date saying I'm whitewashed and I have a low IQ. This girl Romi that I went on three dates with that I've been seeing the longest is respectful for the most part in person but she always uses these jokes to deflect against wanting physical intimacy. For example, she said on the last date at a restaraunt that once she get her furniture all settled in she would invite me over for a bottle of wine. Then when I tried to follow up on those plans she is trying to make me be the desparate one and shes gaslighting and flipping the script. See screenshots. She did say she's slow to warm up on the first date but maybe she'd think she would get emotionally attached after intimacy or something. Let me know what you think.

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Hi Alex, I've been getting a bit better with texting girls on dating apps and getting numbers more consistently, but I want to find out how I can improve with these convos here where the girls ghosted. Arya and Amisha agreed to a date, but ghosted when it came to logistics. Thanks.

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Hi Alex, Hope all is going well. I wanted to reach out because I'm still having the issue where my dating app matches are not responding. I tried implementing the advice you gave of being less serious/formal and more flirty and im using FireTexts more but still not getting much responses. I feel like it has less to do with the conversation and more to do with them being low investment/low attraction from the beginning. Maybe it goes back to my photos. I would like to hear your thoughts on this. (See attached screenshots).

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Hi everyone, Im getting a decent number of matches on hinge but noticed most girls are not responding to the first message or after a few messages exchanged. See attached for some screenshots. I'd like to know if I'm being too generic or boring, or if there girls are just low interest from the beginning. I'd appreciate if Alex sees this too. Thanks.

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