Hi everyone,
I wanted to get some advice on if other guys in their 20s are experiencing this too. But I noticed alot of girls I've been going out with recently have been display some sense of attitude and ego issues. I met a few girls since the holidays last year, and I had good experiences with two of them who were attracted to me and made out with me on the first date. But then I had this one girl Meg, who acted cold and didnt feel a connection and then said my home state sucks. Then this other girl Stuti ended up insulting me on a second date saying I'm whitewashed and I have a low IQ. This girl Romi that I went on three dates with that I've been seeing the longest is respectful for the most part in person but she always uses these jokes to deflect against wanting physical intimacy. For example, she said on the last date at a restaraunt that once she get her furniture all settled in she would invite me over for a bottle of wine. Then when I tried to follow up on those plans she is trying to make me be the desparate one and shes gaslighting and flipping the script. See screenshots. She did say she's slow to warm up on the first date but maybe she'd think she would get emotionally attached after intimacy or something. Let me know what you think.
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54 Posts (+30), 191 Cmts (+99)
1) You tried to keep her accountable for her words, that’s women’s kryptonite
2) She clearly stated how she saw you, which answers your question on her issue: she doesn’t want to invite you over because she gets the vibe she’s your only option. Your fault not hers, so time to take accountability
3) You took it super personal which told her you can’t take criticism let alone joke without an outburst. Totally flooped and that wasn’t even a shit test.
To answer your Headline, yes women in USA have been on downward trend of appeal which is why passport movement has been trending tremendously.
4 Posts (+2), 21 Cmts (+9)
She clearly said in her message she was joking and didn't see me that way, as if I'm desparate or she's my only option. I've been dating other girls while seeing her. Yes, I overreacted alittle bit but if you had self-respect you'd keep a girl accountable when necessary. We made clear plans on the last date that once she gets the furniture she'd invite me over then she tries to gaslight/flip the script on me. That's her just getting nervous about intimacy or something.
398 Posts (+1.3K), 16K Cmts (+5.3K)
I guess im confused why you are trying to so hard to go to Romi's place instead of just inviting her to yours. That would work so much better man
4 Posts (+2), 21 Cmts (+9)
I would but I dont have my own place rn. I'm living with family.
398 Posts (+1.3K), 16K Cmts (+5.3K)
ah in that case youll prob have to get an airbnb