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Texting started off well where I was sexualising a bit but then come time for the date, she flakes. I called her at the time of the date but she doesn't pick up and later messages saying she's not feeling well. What can I text her now? Anyway to save this?

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I tried to seed coming to my place for drinks to celebrate her landing a new job . But then as seen in screenshot, she doesn't comply but says we can catch up in city. I know she has an apartment there. Now should I agree and try to close at her place or still try to get her to come to my area with ' Come to my area and I will come to yours next time' ? Last option is a bit more risky and I am scared it will scare her off.

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Just wondering is it actually possible to build complianance in texting as you would in real life? i.e asking for small compliance first and then slowly increasing. Or punishing for non compliance, vibing more, then trying again etc Thanks.

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I approached a girl from day game yesterday. I did a cold read on her saying I bet you are the type whose quite shy at first but with people you know, you really open up and are actually very adventurous. She replies saying 'I might be a bit dense but are you hitting on me right now?' I say 'kind of' I say let's grab a coffee. She says Sure and I get her number. Then see the text response in screenshot. How do I get around her saying she's not looking for a relationship?

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Just texting this girl but she never replies until I call her out playfully using ' If you are too nervous, I understand' etc Every time I do this she replies and apologizes for not replying saying she has been super busy with her life but then does it again the next time too! Should I call her out seriously now. I was thinking along the lines of: 'I don't know why you are making it so hard. You keep apologizing for not replying but you keep doing the same thing. You either want to meet or you don't? What is it going to be?' Does calling them out seriously work?

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I have a date tomorrow at 11AM and she has to see the doctor at 1PM. I am going to her area because she said it was too far to come my area. So I only have a 2 hour window to meet her. Should I try close her within 2 hours or leave it for 2nd date? Or try to meet her again the same day after her doctor's appointment if I am still in the area? Thanks

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I day gamed this girl saying hey you look really cute. What's your name. We shake hands and I hold her hand for a few seconds. She is holding a camera in her hands. She has a big smile on face and is really receptive from the get go. I throw in a few spikes saying ‘what’s a girl all glammed up like you doing in the middle of nowhere. She tells me she is a food Instagram photographer and just finished up doing that in the city, caught the tram back and ended up in the inner suburbs. She asks what I am doing and I say ‘I was just going for a walk and I saw you and had to come Hi to a lovely lady like you’. She laughs saying it is so random. I disqualify and spike saying oh I hope you aren’t a IG model. Oh you are trouble. Sorry I can’t talk to you anymore. She laughs saying ‘Nooo Im not.’ She tells me she is waiting for her sister to pick her up and we walk up the street for a bit. Then her sister arrives soon after and I go for the number. She tells me she has a boyfriend and gives me her Instagram instead. She then leaves. Then I text her later that night as seen in the screenshots. What should I say now to be able to escalate it further? Thanks!

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