Just texting this girl but she never replies until I call her out playfully using ' If you are too nervous, I understand' etc
Every time I do this she replies and apologizes for not replying saying she has been super busy with her life but then does it again the next time too!
Should I call her out seriously now. I was thinking along the lines of:
'I don't know why you are making it so hard. You keep apologizing for not replying but you keep doing the same thing. You either want to meet or you don't? What is it going to be?'
Does calling them out seriously work?
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I wouldn’t call her out this way. If you post screenshots it’d be easier to evaluate
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See screenshots below.
There is a bit more texting before the first screenshot but not sure why its not on my phone. But basically it was me trying to arrange the date and her not really replying where I then called her out with 'If you are too nervous, I totally understand'.
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90 Posts (+21), 349 Cmts (+123)
I’ll leave the constructive criticism to Alex but if you wanted to call her out I would maybe go with “look I get it, I’m busy too. But I’m sure we could both find a few hours if we wanted to” or “i genuinely didn’t take you for the flakey type” . I’d probably go with one of these as a last resort but would wait to get the ok from Alex first.
397 Posts (+1.3K), 16K Cmts (+5.3K)
Yes, calling a girl out does work, but your proposed text is too aggressive man. Post a few screenshots, & I'll try to help you come up with something better.
13 Posts (-1), 9 Cmts (+0)
Hey Bro . Did you have a chance to look at the screenshots underneath MM's message?
Thanks bro.
397 Posts (+1.3K), 16K Cmts (+5.3K)
I did read. Say something like “Look if you’re not into this, just lmk and I can stop trying”
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