Texting started off well where I was sexualising a bit but then come time for the date, she flakes. I called her at the time of the date but she doesn't pick up and later messages saying she's not feeling well. What can I text her now? Anyway to save this?
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No harm in being a bit persistent. Reengage, build rapport, and then go for a reschedule.
A few suggestions though:
- Don't use so many emojis, a little goes a long way. Too many can work against you.
- When you go for a girl's number, either by asking for it or telling her to text you at your number, pick one lane and hold the frame. Also, when you brought up the number, you should have moved to text right then instead of continuing on bumble.
- As Herb S said, lock in a solid plan and confirm before the date. Reading the texts, she never straight up agreed to the hotel meetup idea, just conveyed interest in hanging out.
Good luck bro
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After she said Saturday, I'd have gotten her number man
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I think you should've checked in with her on the day of the date and confirm and not just appear at the hotel waiting for her.