I tried to seed coming to my place for drinks to celebrate her landing a new job . But then as seen in screenshot, she doesn't comply but says we can catch up in city.
I know she has an apartment there.
Now should I agree and try to close at her place or still try to get her to come to my area with ' Come to my area and I will come to yours next time' ?
Last option is a bit more risky and I am scared it will scare her off.
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You should have given her more time to respond. You look soft by double texting that fast. She def didn't fall asleep, she was getting her cheeks clapped by some other dude probably. Go for the close at your place first and if she still doesn't want to make the drive to yours then you can try to close at her place. But by the looks of it she might be a prude.
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I need a little more context then this. First off, how do you know this girl. Also how far away is your place from the city?
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I met her during daygame when I was in the city of Sydney. She looked like she was in a hurry but I still approached from the side then moved to square up to her as I was talking. We only had a very brief chat (where she is from, what she's doing tonight) as she was rushing to meet a friend. I did a quick number close.
I am from Parramatta so that is about 15 miles away.
I will post the screenshots. Warning: It is quite long LOL
Thanks heaps for all your help and suggestions by the way! Really appreciate it!
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I'll be honest, I only took a look at the last 3 screenshots since this is a very long conversation. I saw two things that stood out to me. First off, suboptimal closing. Check out the video I have on that. Secondly, a bit of neediness. You double texted her after only an hour. And also way too eagerly agreed to come to her. The vibe is that she's more valuable then you. Which is obviously not the frame you want to have.