she also didn't act bratty on our first date. is that a bad sign?

That I'm no longer waiting on somebody who clearly has zero interest in me anymore, and is just using me for attention and a backup in case she doesn't find something better. It shows her and myself that I have some self-respect. It signals attractive qualities that makes her more likely to come back eventually, but I honestly don't care if she does. If she comes back, it's just a bonus

I ended up cutting it off. After getting into her accident, she said she would get back to me about the date. 10 days later she never did, so I just sent her a text saying I wasn't interested in continuing seeing her. She's been blowing me off for 3 weeks at this point, so I wanted her to know I'm not going to wait around for her. Maybe she'll come back later, who knows, but I feel a lot better about now

Thanks for the reply.
She ended up texting me back, but didn't give me a day she was free. She said she was in a car wreck and had to figure things out with getting a new car. I waited a day to text her and she texted me back after 5 minutes with pics of the accident. I'm just going to play it cool from now on and not mention hanging out unless she does first. And I'm not texting her at all until she texts me

Can't really comment on the pics except they look decent, just a little posed.

But I'm in the same boat as you. Never changed my pics or profile and I used to kill it with Tinder and Bumble, but they both have been dead as hell the last 6 months, especially Bumble. Never done a profile reset or anything like that. I've started focusing on Hinge only and have been getting much better results.

I appreciate it, brother. Needed to hear that

thanks, man. I'll let it sit. I'm curious though, is she just testing me or did I do something to turn her off?

thanks, I'll try that

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It probably is the anti-depressants but I can tell you the two things that helped me a lot.

1. Consistent sleep schedule. Go to bed around the same time every night (within the hour). 7-8 hours of sleep

2. Aerobic exercise. When I had ED I was lifting weights but the rest of my lifestyle was very sedentary. I started running every other day and after a couple weeks of that and getting good sleep, I was back to normal. My erections were actually stronger than they were before the ED.