Should I pull back. I feel like asking what day she's free might sound needy
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9mo ago
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A month ago I matched with a girl who agreed to a date and asked for my number. She texted me after a day but I forgot about her and I thought she was a scammer lol . We matched again but she seems kinda pissed. Anything I can do to salvage this?
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9mo ago
She kinda soft closed herself so I went for the hard close. Was that too eager?
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1y ago
Been seeing this girl for a month and a half. We've been on 4 dates and had sex each time. I realize I've been over pursuing her by trying to make dates, texting too much, and not letting her come to me. Her reply times are getting longer and longer, and she canceled our last date. Even though she asked for another date, she hasn't responded when I went to set one up. I feel like I have two options: Just leave the message be and wait to see if she ever responds Do a more "extreme" takeaway. Something like "Hey, I'd like to see you again, but I like spending my time with someone who is excited to see me and appreciates my effort. I'm just not getting that vibe from you. Take care. " I really like this girl, but I'm not afraid to walk away. I'm just not sure what the best option for this situation is?
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2y ago *
I get a decent amount of matches on Tinder and Hinge, but almost nothing on Bumble. Maybe one match a week, sometimes zero. Bumble used to be my number 1 dating app a couple years ago. I would get tons of matches and the girls were less flakey and better looking than Tinder. I never changed my profile either, it's exactly the same between all 3 apps. minus the prompts used on Hinge. Is anybody struggling with Bumble?
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2y ago
She texts me almost every day but I limit our convos to a few texts a day. Seems really into me and even hints at relationship vibes. I got sick after our second date for almost a week and texted her this after I got better. In the audio message I said I was feeling better, and that I was gonna kick her butt at air hockey (we agreed we wanted to go on an arcade date)
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2y ago *
She ended up ghosting me when we originally dated, for whatever reason. I cut out most of the Hinge convo because it was mostly callback jokes from when we dated before. She seemed very interested in hanging out again, but when I tried to confirm for the next day, she gave me the silent treatment. I should let you know this was a pattern when we dated before. She would be very keen when texting, but then go silent randomly, often for several days, usually this happened when I tried to hang out with her/ go for logistics. I don't know if she's just playing a game for attention or maybe testing me? Either way it feels toxic af
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2y ago *
Sorry, this one's a bit long. This chick is sending me paragraphs and "liking" literally every text I send her, but whenever I flirt with her she ignores it or disappears for a couple days before responding. She eventually agreed to meetup for drinks but when I asked for her schedule, she stopped responding.
2y ago
Should I continue the convo like normal or just hail Mary for the date/number? This girl is only on tinder every few days. In my experience, girls like this tend to disappear fast if you don't move quickly.
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2y ago
I've had a LOT of success with this opener, but it's very 50/50. When it works, it works super well. But when it flops like this, it's really hard to recover.
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2y ago *
