Been seeing this girl for a month and a half. We've been on 4 dates and had sex each time. I realize I've been over pursuing her by trying to make dates, texting too much, and not letting her come to me. Her reply times are getting longer and longer, and she canceled our last date. Even though she asked for another date, she hasn't responded when I went to set one up. I feel like I have two options: Just leave the message be and wait to see if she ever responds Do a more "extreme" takeaway. Something like "Hey, I'd like to see you again, but I like spending my time with someone who is excited to see me and appreciates my effort. I'm just not getting that vibe from you. Take care. " I really like this girl, but I'm not afraid to walk away. I'm just not sure what the best option for this situation is?
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Thanks for the reply.
She ended up texting me back, but didn't give me a day she was free. She said she was in a car wreck and had to figure things out with getting a new car. I waited a day to text her and she texted me back after 5 minutes with pics of the accident. I'm just going to play it cool from now on and not mention hanging out unless she does first. And I'm not texting her at all until she texts me
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Any update with this?
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I ended up cutting it off. After getting into her accident, she said she would get back to me about the date. 10 days later she never did, so I just sent her a text saying I wasn't interested in continuing seeing her. She's been blowing me off for 3 weeks at this point, so I wanted her to know I'm not going to wait around for her. Maybe she'll come back later, who knows, but I feel a lot better about now