Comments by Daddy Matt
Joined 5y ago"College engineering student looking to improve my social skills in all areas of my life including women. "
I think you need to save some of these talking points for in person, texting should be reserved for stimulating emotions for the next meet. if you do end up talking about general stuff, slide it in with emotional triggered texts:
for ex:
“was thinking abt you earlier today, you still in town?”
try to find a way to ask the question you want but triggering her emotions so you get a respond, that way you don’t need to reengage, it’s annoying but sadly that’s what we gotta do now. attention span is so short these days
kinda see what ur saying. if I probed more at 11 and built more investment maybe wouldn’t flake. true, handle might’ve been too direct triggering a shit test
i’m thinking of saying something shorter like “don’t be shy”, “unless you’re shy”, “if you’re shy, i’ll stop”. would wait another day but I wanna push for tn
It’s much harder to do and achieve a more natural photo, but I used to do this growing up. Honestly you’d be better off asking one of your friends to do it. Find a friend who you’re cool with and just tell him you’d really appreciate his help with taking photos a ton. the issue with us men is we feel the need to do things alone, I still feel this way. But in communities like this where there’s a shared understanding it’s so much easier to get help. I wish I could help you take photos man, try to find someone who understands and appreciates the things you do moving forward. also can could tell your friend...” hey man If i’m being honest I didn’t want to ask you this but I could really use your help” and just tell him what you’re trying to do and if he could help you up your dating profile that would be awesome. if he’s receptive yada yada yada
I feels like work for them, also usually it helps if you take pictures for them, either way photos can come out trash if you push friends to take photos of you who are not interested
yea I was just about to say this, you accepted a losing frame bro. you shouldn’t have done that
I have the same issue bro, if you really want buy an iphone tripod and use the timer feature. make sure you turn Live mode on and MAKE MAKE SURE IT DOESNT LOOK POSED
Maybe she is one of those time wasters on there looking for validation?

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your the best man, ending up closing with another girl tn. so i’ll wait this one out like you said