New takeaway suggestions
We have met up a few times and hooked up. But she just sucks at convo so I have practically used all takeaways/re-engage texts on her in the past.
Me: what did you do for your bday?
Me: ? ( re-engage after 3 days)
Her: heyyy we travelled to this town to celebrate it
Me: oh nice. Which town was this?
No reply. She does in the past too and after en-engaging a few times she ends up meeting up. But i have used them all (dont think too hard, dont be shy, nervous one, talkative one, skeleton meme lol). How should i re-engage again?
Also side note: The relationship article was epic, Alex
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glad you enjoyed the article. what id say here is why even bother bantering over text if she sucks at it. you no longer have to build comfort. in this case, just use text to set up another date. also, its ok to recycle takeaways if time has passed.
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I think you need to save some of these talking points for in person, texting should be reserved for stimulating emotions for the next meet. if you do end up talking about general stuff, slide it in with emotional triggered texts:
for ex:
“was thinking abt you earlier today, you still in town?”
try to find a way to ask the question you want but triggering her emotions so you get a respond, that way you don’t need to reengage, it’s annoying but sadly that’s what we gotta do now. attention span is so short these days