Thanks man, I appreciate your comment. Yea I’m definitely working on creating a better profile: I get matches but I wanna skyrocket them so I’m going to do a photoshoot real soon. In person yea gotta bring that energy, but I’m just debating whether I should go back to short hair before the photoshoot and to go to bars and clubs cause it just looks clean and masculine.

Idk I overthink a lot and not sure which direction to go in. I definitely get categorized in the “player” category much more but what do you think? Any of these hairstyles would work? No homo

I appreciate it man, no more limiting beliefs!

I appreciate it man thank you. I will put myself out there enough and do exactly what you said. And yes I watched your how to get a girlfriend video where you explain this exact concept. Going after just one girl can be very mentally damaging for both me and the girl. Not only that but the guy will start showing simpy behaviour which is just automatically going to turn the girl off.

Lol I use to overindulge in it back during Covid not anymore tbh, I matured really fast and realized very quickly how all of it is not helping me. I think joining the frat in my university really taught me a lot and also developed my character in ways but yes, I have a lot to work on.

You’re absolutely correct: 3 YouTubers max should be the aim. It should come from someone who is genuinely happy with their life, constantly improving in the right areas and someone who is not a hypocrite.

Appreciate it man. I think YouTube and online has completely fucked up the concept of dating, how it works and everything. I’ve pretty much gone through all the self improvement content you can think of: red pill, black pill, Andrew Tate, Austin Dunham, all these dumbasses who have no clue what they’re talking about. I love Alex’s videos and the advice you have just given.

Appreciate it bruv thanks man 🤙

Gotcha, it seems to me that self-improvement just comes down to a small number of things: doing the habits listed in the 1st tier, focusing on my career, having interests and hobbies, and I guess it IS allowed to play video games or watch favourite TV shows after I finish all my tasks and goals I set throughout the day. But mainly it just comes down to going to the gym and taking care of myself and going out and talking to people. All the small things like “jaw exercises” are an arbitrary waste of time lol.

Thank you Alex I really appreciate it. I also have one more question: the part that bothers me is becoming a self improvement robot. How do you balance out self-improvement with hobbies and interests in a such a way that I excel at them all including the hobbies. Also should you play video games and watch TV or should those things be given up entirely?

Okay, I see your point bruv. Everyone has different goals.

I’m not just trying to check all the boxes of self-improvement. Quite frankly speaking, a lot of the self improvement habits I find are pretty useful, maybe I wasn’t specific enough so my bad.

But yes women is my priority right now and I know what it’s going to take for that: like you said go out a lot, talk to women and use dating apps with high quality photos.

Things like my physique, money, and fashion are very important to me as well but women is my top priority.

This is getting a little personal but I do have a little bit of OCD which triggers me in making a list of things to get done so I can check the box but I don’t know if that’s the correct approach or not.

I want to continue hitting the gym 5 days a week with my brother, in terms of my financial situation like I said: I’m almost done my degree which means I’ll be getting a job really soon, I’m actually applying right now for jobs so as soon as I get one I’m moving out and getting my own place.

For fashion I know what to do that’s a minor thing. But for women I have to put in the time and effort I realize that.

There’s just one thing I’d like to add: you mentioned I don’t need to do any of the self improvement nonsense, which you’re right I agree. Majority of these self-improvement stuff is all bullshit. But in terms of women, looks do matter to an extent so would you say that other than approaching women I should continue lifting weights, dress well and just groom myself right? Just those 3 things

By the way in terms of genetics, I’m 6 ft tall, I’m Indian with a Canadian accent, and I weigh about 140lb right now. People tell me I’m decent looking. I consider myself a good looking guy. I’m just keeping it 100% real. Brutal honest truth nothing more.