I recently watched a the denmo podcast and I really dislike the idea of gradually progressing by being friends first and then going forward. I personally like the idea of seeing a girl I like and approaching her no matter where it is. Sure gradual progression can work if I’m in a group activity or club like salsa, improv, intramural sports or whatever but I’m a strong believer in cold approach. And one thing that kinda gets on my nerves is why does it have to be at a bar specifically or a girl who I see everyday in the elevator? Wtf?! Alex, I want to ask you: is it possible to get a girlfriend by literally seeing a cute girl on the STREET or anywhere random, approaching her with good game (she doesn’t even have to give me “choosing signals”) we vibe, I get her number, we go on a date, we hook up and then we start dating and she’s my girlfriend now? I’m sick of all the YouTube content, I just want to get out there and get to work by approaching. I just want to know if this is possible, that’s it. Just to add: in terms of smv: I’m 6ft tall, good looking (people have told me), in shape, financial situation is moving in a positive direction because I’ll be moving out pretty soon within the next 6-8 months, hopefully, my age is 23 and I dress well. So no need to mention smv over and over again.
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17 Posts (+3), 22 Cmts (+1)
Appreciate it man. I think YouTube and online has completely fucked up the concept of dating, how it works and everything. I’ve pretty much gone through all the self improvement content you can think of: red pill, black pill, Andrew Tate, Austin Dunham, all these dumbasses who have no clue what they’re talking about. I love Alex’s videos and the advice you have just given.
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Sounds like you have overindulged in the self-improvement videos. My advice is to choose 3 channels MAX to follow that match with your goals
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Lol I use to overindulge in it back during Covid not anymore tbh, I matured really fast and realized very quickly how all of it is not helping me. I think joining the frat in my university really taught me a lot and also developed my character in ways but yes, I have a lot to work on.
You’re absolutely correct: 3 YouTubers max should be the aim. It should come from someone who is genuinely happy with their life, constantly improving in the right areas and someone who is not a hypocrite.