I actually have a 100% retention rate. I’ve yet to smash a chick that I did not want to meet me a second, third time, etc (obviously not counting girls I did not smash on the first date, those easily fizzle out as we all know).

From the little info I have, you’re either not emotionally connecting with the girls (before and/or after sex) or you’re not fucking them as good as you think you are. This is an extreme example but if you’re escalating 5-10 min as soon as you meet them (if doing at the house date) and throw them out right after sex (no cuddling, no pillow talk, no spending the night, taking absolutely zero interest in them besides using them as a disposable cum bucket) then yeah a lot of girls will not want to see you again. Girls need more than just a “well endowed dick”. They need closure, need to feel safe, and you need to emotionally connect with her on SOME level. Hope this helps, brother.

Sit down and journal (pen and paper) every thought you have right now about the the relationship, the girl, yourself. Every little thought no matter how dumb, "beta," or cringe the thought is (doesn't matter because it's just a thought). If you do this long enough (45-60 min) and really sit down and focus on getting your thoughts/feelings on paper, you will suddenly come to the conclusion why the relationship ended and why this is the best thing that could've happened to a young guy like you.

Te next step is to get jacked, get some money, and get a whole lot of new pussy. You'll be alright man.

That's great man. Keep crushing it. You won't be banned from using a VPN but shadowbanned down the line if you constantly switch the servers. So I would still be careful with that.

DO NOT use a VPN on Tinder. That's what either got you or contributed to you getting shadowbanned in the first place. I've played around with this shit more than most dating coaches. There is only one way to overcome your issue right now and it it's doing an ultra hard reset. It sucks but it's up to you if you wanna follow through:

• New device
• New sim card
• New number
• New email
• New network
• New apple id
• New credit card info (ideally one with a different name than your original one)
• New IP address that's NOT a VPN (get a new router or only use 4g data when swiping that you get from the NEW phone/number)
• New pictures

And even if you DON'T follow all these steps, you won't reset your ELO score. So even if you come around your shadowban, you're still stuck with the same score and essentially the same results.

You can possible use old pictures if you remove exif data and manipulate the pictures enough. But it's risky. Keep in mind, NO ONE knows 100% exactly how much Tinder is able to track the pictures. So this one is up to you. I would recommend getting new pictures and stepping up your game while you're going through all this trouble because your pics give you 90% of your results when it comes to getting matches anyways (eg. you can affect your number closes, dates, etc with text game but for matches, 90% of it's pics).

Good luck brother.

PS. Waiting 3 months doesn't actually work like people and Tinder claims it does (I've tried it and tested it, actually going 4 months). Doesn't reset anything.

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"How long have you had that problem?"

"Are you ready to wait for him if he goes to jail?" / "Are you ready to take his last name?" / "Are you ready to give him 10 sons?"

First one a bit more playful/teasing.

Last 3 also playful but if there's a moment of hesitation in her you might have a shot but I wouldn't expect it.

Yup maybe. Could a thousands reasons. Telling her I can't do saturday def wouldn't DLV me but I made the bet for satruday because she asked to reschedule. Oh well.

And yeah I type this out. Making these posts takes a while because I have to translate all my texts. But but it's so worth for the feedback you get from the guys here

we planned a date for friday (she was going to drive to my place).
early friday she double texted: "can we do tomorrow" and "or no wait let's do today"

Since she asked to reschedule I thought cool no big deal (if a girl doesn't want to hang out the same day, I don't push it).

And the next day on saturday she flaked when I tried confirming. Maybe she doesn't want to hang at all or maybe she wasn't feeling it just that day I don't know.

the i'm going out will be difficult because she lives +1 hour away from me but I can try it. we'l

My exact thoughts! Thank you

Stopped getting replies to nearly all my interactions this week or any of all my follow-ups messages. Very weird.