Breakup Advice
This is slightly different than the other posts or my usual ones. But I recently got out of a long-term relationship (1 year) with someone I caught hard feelings for. I’m looking to see if anyone has life advice on how to move on or better themselves. I’m 20 by the way so it’s my first true hard emotion.
Sit down and journal (pen and paper) every thought you have right now about the the relationship, the girl, yourself. Every little thought no matter how dumb, "beta," or cringe the thought is (doesn't matter because it's just a thought). If you do this long enough (45-60 min) and really sit down and focus on getting your thoughts/feelings on paper, you will suddenly come to the conclusion why the relationship ended and why this is the best thing that could've happened to a young guy like you.
Te next step is to get jacked, get some money, and get a whole lot of new pussy. You'll be alright man.
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It can be difficult, but it is important to take time and reflect on what went wrong with the relationship, on your side and hers. Figure out what you liked and didn't like, take responsibility for yourself, and recognize that a breakup is a powerful and motivating opportunity for growth. Establish some discipline in your life; create a solid routine, exercise, read, get ambitious about a career, etc. Serious change won't happen immediately, but as time goes on you'll start to notice the differences in yourself and in the way your future relationships play out.
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Thanks for the response. I’ll definitely implement some of the stuff you suggested.