So i've been trying to find my way while following in the footsteps of those before me on this forum. Text game is literally revolutionizing my lays and helping me get lays even with poor photos.
But the main issue is that I can't seem to retain girl after the first or second lay or it falls through for planning the second hangout. I'll literally fuck the shit out of these girls, give them the best dick (helps that I'm well endowed) but that doesn't seem to be enough. I even send an after sex text for obvious reasons.
Yet despite this, I can't seem to keep girls. Its either they make an excuse sometime before the session, ghost, or make some excuse as to why they don't wanna hangout.
One example:
I gave the pipe to this korean chick for a good long while on our first hangout. did some bdsm. girl eye fucking me. hit her up the next day with a 'that was fire double emoji' text. then a couple days later made plans to kick it saturday this coming weekend.
Today before saturday, she tells me 'saturday, it won't work sorry' no mention of rescheduling.
I figured it was over so i said, 'do you want reschedule or nah?'
she says 'nah'
so i'm like 'hey i hit it once and it was a good time. enjoy life tho'
she says 'thanks, it was fun. see ya'
I deleted right after.
A lot of my conversations go along these lines without the 'closure'. So i'm just wondering what am i doing wrong to not keep these chicks around. Like is it how i'm texting after sex? I'm not really looking for a gf or anything but it'd be nice to pound a girl more than once ffs lol.
HELP A BROTHA OUT.
50 Posts (+39), 78 Cmts (+18)
I actually have a 100% retention rate. I’ve yet to smash a chick that I did not want to meet me a second, third time, etc (obviously not counting girls I did not smash on the first date, those easily fizzle out as we all know).
From the little info I have, you’re either not emotionally connecting with the girls (before and/or after sex) or you’re not fucking them as good as you think you are. This is an extreme example but if you’re escalating 5-10 min as soon as you meet them (if doing at the house date) and throw them out right after sex (no cuddling, no pillow talk, no spending the night, taking absolutely zero interest in them besides using them as a disposable cum bucket) then yeah a lot of girls will not want to see you again. Girls need more than just a “well endowed dick”. They need closure, need to feel safe, and you need to emotionally connect with her on SOME level. Hope this helps, brother.
2 Posts (+0), 2 Cmts (+2)
Heres the thing:
I literally do everything that you suggested except for spending the night and that part is not due to me, but them not wanting to. Which I don't mind, I'm not about to beg them to stay, since I got my nut.
The last few girls I fucked, I've been practicing the sex god method on and made all but one squirt quite a bit, even without the dick. Crazy thing this is, the one that didn't squirt, happens to be the one I refuse to do pillow talk or anything emotional with and yet she is the one that keeps coming back.
So I honestly, don't know what the hell I'm doing wrong. Hell, even on my after sex text, they tell me its the best sex they had. Not all, but a lot. But when it comes to planning something a second time, that's where the shenanigans about keeping a girl starts happening. (busy, got stuff going on, ghost, excuses, not responding to text regarding a plan.)
I promise I do make it a point to keep emotionally connect with girls I'm attracted to after sex. Maybe they're just not feeling my vibe, or maybe its my looks. I truly don't know.
6 Posts (+4), 24 Cmts (+5)
What's the sample size?