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How should the guys in your mixed group activity photo look and act?

Hey guys. I know Alex said that the girls in your photo need to be hot. Since other girls will see it and unconsciously get turned on. However, what about the guys should they also be dorky looking or good looking? Should they look like the "beta" in the group? Or ugly so that you look better than them/him. Or it doesn't matter? Picture #1: Ping Pong Game So say you take a pictuere playing ping pong. Should the picture show you as the "alpha/leader" of the group , the girls cheering for you. While your guy friend losing the game?

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When should you cut your losses? Determine if a girl is a timewaster?

Hey guys, As I explained on a previous post, I met a girl through a hosting app. I invited her to stay at my place for a few weeks. However, it seems nothing romantic is going on between us, at best she is a friend. I told her that she would have to leave by the end of the month. I'm confident I made the right decision, since it seems she was only looking for a roommate as opposed to anything more than that. However, I wonder how you guys and Alex make this call. After 1-2 weeks if nothing is going on do you say, "Alright, it seems that this is going nowhere?" I think the main issue I see is that we don't have a "man to woman" connection. Is more a "friend to friend."

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I know Alex said that travelling is a luxury, I agree but what does he think about "Couchsurfing"?

Hey guys, This is a topic I'm a bit confused about. It seems Alex said that traveling is a luxury. I agree to an extend. It seems that "well off" people from a country like those that are able to buy many things and then they might consider traveling. Since some jobs demand a time commitment hence its unlikely most average people would have any time to travel. Or does this only apply to America since many Americans don't really travel nor learn a second language? On that note, what does Alex think about Couchsurfing and app like that, its seems like many people there are not wealthy but rather "hippie" type people. Would Alex said this is a "small subculture" and not really representative of American nor Europe? Hence, when people think about travelling they are not really think about this type of people?

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Is being a Pornstar and/or Dating Coach/Pick Up Artist low value, high value or polarizing?

Hey guys, This is a topic I have been thinking because of my experiences with pre-selection. Like some girl asked me about my photography and I showed her pictures of me and a female friend. Not porn but edgy stuff. And she thought it was hot while I showed it to another girl and she seemed to be "turn off" by it. Likewise, I read about Jordi ENP and he said some girls would hit him up because of his "porn notoriety." Equally I met a lot of PUA's who told me that some girls would just want to be their groupies while others would directely avoid them or would not really want to associate with them. Actually that two different PUA coaches friend told me that some girls saw them picking up girls and thought it was weird/creepy. Its hard because I get mixed resposes with this whole pre-selection. I had a gf who thought it was hot that I was with other girls and she found some of my pic/videos. But any way, I think there's a lot to this topic.

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How to correctly show Pre-selection? Not just on dating apps but on dates and other hosting apps.

Hey guys, This was something I asked JMULV awhile back. I'm still confused as to how to show pre-selection on one hand it seems to be a poweful tool on the other it seems to be a turn off. I went on a date with a girl and showed her a picture of me and another girl for a photoshoot. I said I also do photoshoot and I picked the outfits. One girl that I showed the pictures said, "That's hot." While the other girl thought it was, "Meh, " it seems like she didn't want to see me with that girl as Alex said, pictures of you and another girl could show you are a couple. I get mixed responses. Once I had a profile "not for dating" but for hosting people and it was all girls and me doing fun activities. This girl actually thought it was a "turn on" she said, "You have many girlfriends!" I actually denied it and she later said, "Oh I know."etc...

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How would you guys answer to this objection? (From Sugar apps)

Hey guys, i sometimes run into this objection. I wonder how Alex and you guys would handle it. I ended replying, "Well Tinder there's way too many guys and the girls are bots, they want you to follow them on instangram, OF..." " I wanted to try something different." She didn't reply after that though.

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Question for Alex: How to hook up with a girl who is staying at your place?

Hey guys, I met one of this girls from the hosting apps. I doubt she'll leave a review on the app. Since we met from another site but we both used the app. She is staying at my place for a few weeks. She's got her own bed. How would you guys approach it? I'm hopeful Alex can answer since this might be a advanced question. So far: i have been more of the chill landlord. I was friendly to her male friend who brought her stuff. I played it cool. The first night I did not try to hook up. Since being too aggresive from the get go might be a turn off. What's the best strategy? Play the long game, slowly try getting on her space? Should i try to sit on her bed? Invite her to watch movies at my bed? Try to get her drinking? Damn, so many questions!

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Why do you guys think that dating in America is so competive?

Hey guys, I was watching the discussion between Alex and Qbwillie. I agree with both that in America is "Hard mode" when it comes to dating. I have experience it for instance, when talking with girls from Latin America and Eastern Europe, that while game is important. I did not have to be a "game master" to succeed. In fact, the girls would be forgiving if I made mistakes. The same can not be said America. This is not a "bash" American or English speaking women thread. Don't take me wrong. But rather I wanted to hear you guys and Alex's explanation as to why he thinks this happens.

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Field Report- Daygame-Keep it simple or Try to be fancy?

Hey guys, I'm back doing daygame, I've done a lot of daygame back in the day. I kept it simple and tried to get a date. However, i shared it online and many guys where saying, you should have done "Push Pull" technique "try to spark her emotions," "Flirt" Bare in mind though that this guys probably watch youtube videos where the coach edits his highlights and does a lot of fancy stuff and then makes it seem like it works. What would you guys do? -Keep it simple and try to get a date or instant date similar to JMULV's video. -Try to do fancier stuff, how do you even flirt with a girl you don't even know or try to do "push/pull" techniques. Over the texting I guess it makes sense. Would you drop 1 or 2 lines like the "We Frame' Alex mentions.

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Specific Bedroom/Couch Escalation Questions

Hey guys, I've been following Alex's and JMULV's advice and it has led me to have girls come over to my place. Last time, I got a make-out and lapdance, but then I asked the girl, "Hey can you give me a BJ" and she was, "I don't know." I got nervous and went twice to the bathroom to get condoms and then she said, "Oh, I have to go." I had a different set where I also left for the bathroom briefly and it also made the girl lose interest and she ended up leaving. 1-How do you, "Pull your dick out?" I think Alex and JMULV talked about this move, it seems that there comes a point where it's ok to pull your dick out and the girl will start engaging with it? It happened to me a while back that it had my dick out and the girl just started touching it. I didn't tell her to do it. Is this the right way to do it, just take it out as opposed to telling her? 2-I got a bit nervous since I wondered, "What if she freaks out" but I guess that's all in my mind, I'm guessing once she's making out then it's all good, right? 3-In general, would you guys recommend staying put in the same place and not moving around. If you are on the couch escalating just let happen right there and then? It seems moving around too much makes you lose the set.

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