Specific Bedroom/Couch Escalation Questions
Hey guys,
I've been following Alex's and JMULV's advice and it has led me to have girls come over to my place. Last time, I got a make-out and lapdance, but then I asked the girl, "Hey can you give me a BJ" and she was, "I don't know." I got nervous and went twice to the bathroom to get condoms and then she said, "Oh, I have to go." I had a different set where I also left for the bathroom briefly and it also made the girl lose interest and she ended up leaving.
1-How do you, "Pull your dick out?" I think Alex and JMULV talked about this move, it seems that there comes a point where it's ok to pull your dick out and the girl will start engaging with it? It happened to me a while back that it had my dick out and the girl just started touching it. I didn't tell her to do it. Is this the right way to do it, just take it out as opposed to telling her?
2-I got a bit nervous since I wondered, "What if she freaks out" but I guess that's all in my mind, I'm guessing once she's making out then it's all good, right?
3-In general, would you guys recommend staying put in the same place and not moving around. If you are on the couch escalating just let happen right there and then? It seems moving around too much makes you lose the set.
39 Posts (+8), 697 Cmts (+226)
You have to get her very turned on first. Don't ask for a blowjob, that frame is a panty drier. Ask "do you feel what you fucking do to me?" Have condoms ready bedside. Dont do anything like that until you've gotten her really wet. Wait until she's commenting about your cock or grabbing or grinding, and then ask "do you like that? Is that what you fucking want?". If you get really confident around this, denying them what they want for a bit is very powerful. "Did I say you could fucking touch? Bad girl. You'll need to beg..." That one really depends on the frame. If you have a solid D/s dynamic, it can be incredibly powerful. If she's not really into that, then I would not suggest this route.
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Yeah man. It's pretty straightforward. You just take it out and put her hand on it. Once her hand touches your dick, it's game over. And girls are hardwired to jerk a dick when they see it. In terms of moving around. I typically start making out on my balcony. Usually even take my dick out and have her jerk it a little bit and then move to the bedroom to bang.
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Awesome, thanks man.