How to correctly show Pre-selection? Not just on dating apps but on dates and other hosting apps.
Hey guys,
This was something I asked JMULV awhile back. I'm still confused as to how to show pre-selection on one hand it seems to be a poweful tool on the other it seems to be a turn off.
I went on a date with a girl and showed her a picture of me and another girl for a photoshoot. I said I also do photoshoot and I picked the outfits. One girl that I showed the pictures said, "That's hot." While the other girl thought it was, "Meh, " it seems like she didn't want to see me with that girl as Alex said, pictures of you and another girl could show you are a couple.
I get mixed responses. Once I had a profile "not for dating" but for hosting people and it was all girls and me doing fun activities. This girl actually thought it was a "turn on" she said, "You have many girlfriends!" I actually denied it and she later said, "Oh I know."etc...

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Did they ask to see a picture or did you just show them(cringe). It has to come up organically or else cringe