This situation is difficult because she didn't react negatively at all to my advances during the date. I feel like if I didn't physically escalate, I would've been friendzoned, but since I did physically escalate, I scared her off. What's weirder is that this woman is a model, and very sexy. I would've assumed she'd be used to that sort of touch

Would it be wrong for me to assume the compliance threshold is much higher in those cases though? I feel like it'd be easier for a woman to agree to "go watch a movie" than to be driven into the woods or an empty parking lot. I've gotten first dates to close at the house plenty of times when she has her own place, but I can't even begin to imagine how I'd get a girl to go to a motel with me

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how the hell do you go about creating that situation

Yea, probably about 20-30%. I get a lot of girls to meet up and some opportunities fall through for other reasons I haven't mastered yet, such as first dates. The girl in question this time was only 19

Here's the entire interaction

Me: been looking for a cute gym buddy (based on her profile)
Her: hmm well this could work then
Me: so gimme the basics. Tattoos? Major? Good kisser?
Her: 2 tattoos, biology, and a great kisser
Me: sounds like our date will be fun then ;)
Her: Oooo yea?
Me: for sure. Do you prefer coffee or smoothies
Her: Smoothies. I hate coffee.
Me: we should grab smoothies together soon
Her: yes we should
Me: cool, what's your number? We can set a date

Waits a day

Me: ?

And then she unmatched. I'm just very confused because she was so agreeable

I'll chalk it to that she just isn't that into me. I tried to pull to the house after but there's really no good counter objection to "my grandma has nobody else to take care of her" lol

well, I kind of can't now haha.

I have been going out with a lot of women at the university she's at, so it's always possible word gets around. This does happen every now and then, but usually the girls that flake give some sort of resistance along the way. This one caught me off guard because she was so submissive all the way through lol

She only told me I was clingy one time, and that was after she said "I feel like you are neglecting me" and I started giving her more attention. Anyway, I've been with other women since this has happened but I've also been texting her every now and then. Told her I care a lot about her and enjoyed having her in my life, and am willing to talk again if she wants but that I don't like the way she disrespected me at the end of our relationship. She Said she "needs time to think" which I'm translating to "if the guy I'm with now fucks up, I'll entertain you as an option again." Sound about right?

update: I changed my first and third pictures to ones that were a bit better and just had a close earlier today 🥳