I get a girl to have a very compliant chat. We soft close a date which she agrees to. Then I ask for her number. And very, very often, I don't hear from them for a day or two. The text I use after the soft close is literally just "cool, what's your #? we can set a date" nothing fancy. Anyway, if I haven't heard from them in a day or 2 I'll just send "?" as a follow up. Then they unmatch This doesn't happen with every girl. Some give out there number just fine. But I don't understand why they're so compliant and flirty and then when I actually go for the number they disappear. Do I really need to wait like 3 days before following up? Also if it's important, I'm 20. So a lot of the girls I go for are 18-22. Are younger girls more hesitant to giving out their numbers?