With this profile I get maybe 1-3 likes a week if I'm lucky so I'm sure there's a lot of room for improvement. Any advice?
For additional context I'm 10.5% bodyfat, 18, and unfortunately only 5'8.
I have the pictures of me on the toy car and with the weird customer from work because I think they're funny, but maybe I should replace those because others might not think so. Any suggestions are appreciated because I think I've improved my looks a good bit over the last year and would like to capitalize on that
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General tips: Face the camera. Your eyes should be visible. Your face should be well lit (by a warm light - not a harsh light). The camera should be at eye level.
First pic should be a clear headshot.
Guitar pic - Not enough lighting, on your face and camera is a bit low. It's good for now until you get better pics.
Gym pic - Uneven lighting, eyes aren't visible, but it's fine for what it is.
Toy car pic - Camera is low. Lighting is awful. Facial expression just looks weird.
Dog pic - Neither you or the dog faces are visible.
Fire pic - Why? You are barely visible in this pic. And it doesn't say anything interesting about you.
Pic with friend - Try to take a social pic thats outdoors. This looks like a really low effort pic.
Are you able to spend money on some photo shoots? This would help a lot. You already have the looks and physique; you just need pro pics.
26 Posts (+8), 21 Cmts (+2)
I'll aim for a photoshoot soon but until then I'll
- get a closeup photo of me and the dog
- replace the car pic with another personality one
- replace the fire pic w one of a nice outfit or something
Hopefully that improves things and thanks so much for taking time to answer
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
There's a shit ton of improvement man. If you get better pics, you will actually kill it. The only decent pic you have right now is 2. Because it shows off your physique. The first guitar one looks like you're depressed. #3 is bad because why are you at a kid's arcade place? You need to work on your expressions. They are a bit too stiff for your pics. Fashion is fine. You just need better expressions, poses and quality in pics
26 Posts (+8), 21 Cmts (+2)
update: I changed my first and third pictures to ones that were a bit better and just had a close earlier today 🥳
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No homo but ur very handsome so you can 110% kill it if you get better pics
1 i actually like a lot, same with 2. They show your face, physique and hobbies (maybe try putting a smirk on the guitar pic with faceapp tho)
3 is posed and looks very childish
4 is ok but i feel like you could do a lot better
5 is interesting.. Cool pic but probably better to put it on instagram then on a dating app
6 is a kinfa gay looking bro pic lol no offense
Ur on the right track, keep watching alexs videos about photos and keep taking them. If you go to the beach or a pool u can get an amazing pic there since ur physique is top tier
26 Posts (+8), 21 Cmts (+2)
thanks, yea I reset my tinder profile and replaced two of the pics with these and I've gotten around 10 matches today. It'll die down after the newbie boost but it's a good start
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41 Posts (+235), 354 Cmts (+209)
I’ve never been a fan of your current haircut. You need something that screams masculine. I’ve been getting a 2 all over and a mid skin fade. It screams military. It screams discipline. It’s screams “that’s a man.” Just my two sense. Continue to stay in the gym. Get your bag up. The women will come. And continue to put yourself out there too. The high quality women are not on the apps. There at the gym. At the coffee shop. At the bookstore. Keep your frame. Be masculine. Be easy to have a conversation with. The apps can get you far. But if you want to meet high quality women that aren’t on these apps you have to have a masculine frame. And literally be the shit. Just my two sense. You will get there. Dating women is like a sales job. The more you put into the funnel. The more high quality will come out. Make sure you are vetting these women too. Have checkpoints. Have standards. Don’t be the dude that bangs 5s and 6s. Stay up. Stay good. I always say. Fit. Feminine. Friendly. Cooperative. And submissive. Go with those 5 you’ll be golden. Check out John Anthony and Kevin Samuel’s in addition to PWF.
26 Posts (+8), 21 Cmts (+2)
thanks, I'll keep the haircut thing in mind for my next barber visit.
I've actually had pretty good success with cold approach, my last relationship resulted from one and lasted 7 months, and I've been working a commission sales job the last year (pedaling phones, insurance, and auto parts). Have never been great at online though. Thank you a lot for the advice
41 Posts (+235), 354 Cmts (+209)
Follow the playbook. Make you own adaptions. Simple is better. A little rapport. Hint at a date. Setup date straight to house. Ask them if they like wine. Much easier this way. Simpler the better. Ask for help. That’s what I did. Stay up. Stay good.